scarlettohara Posted December 9, 2010 Author Share Posted December 9, 2010 So after generating all this upset by sending a letter from his solicitor, he didn't even bother responding to my reply So my solicitor suggested I contact him to ask him so respond (trying to keep in friendly HA HA !) no reply to email, voicemail so I finally text him 'please would you reply to me or my solicitor - we are both adults' I get a message back saying 'my solicitor has written to you' . Er no So my solicitor rang his and surprise surprise a letter is being sent today ! As he still owes me money from our savings and won't say when he will pay them, my solitictor is writing to say that it must go into a holding account until everything is sorted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillybettybabs Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 I totally understand what you are going through, It's very draining. Fingers crossed it can a come to an end soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted December 9, 2010 Author Share Posted December 9, 2010 Thanks, it is all such a waste of money too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eggasperated Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 Been there, done that, still makes me cross how much money my ex got out of me even tho it was 10 years ago so every sympathy with you. Keep strong it will be over eventually and life will seem so much better with him out of your hair and you'll feel . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiggy Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 echo all of above, having divorced husband no 1 many years ago, its a tough time on the whole, but it gets better, fingers crossed all goes well for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mostin Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 What a mess!!! Hope he comes to his senses and stops messing you about soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicken bark Posted December 10, 2010 Share Posted December 10, 2010 As others have said it all seems very draining. Stay strong, keep positive and look after yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
