jackiepoppies Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Mine are on t'other thread but have a double dose! Jackiex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathybc Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 really sorry to hear of your continuing troubles. keep your chin up! x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoebe Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Citizens Advice is a good suggestion - they can advise on benefitsand your rights re the house etc. If your ex owns a share in the house then you cannot change the locks; but if its important to keep him out, then you can apply to the court for an occupation order. Take a look at http://www.adviceguide.org.uk to start with, which is the CAB website. Keep strong and take care xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riane Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 sorry you are having such a bad time. You must hang on in there and find time to "rebuild " yourself in the day. Get all the best advise you can afford. I went to a cheap solicitor and ended up paying twice. If I had got the best advice the first time I would have saved alot of time, effort and tears. good luck and it will get better and you will come out the other end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cam1 Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I have to say i'm one of the ones silently sendng you all my best, want to let you know that you are so brave my dad drank for years until finally drying out with the aid of AA when HE was ready anything my mum or us could say would not do it. I know that my mum was in touch with al-anon not sure how much help she found it. You are doing the best for you and your kids and i hope things improve for you real soon. Lots of good wishes, vibes and love cam mya velma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fowlbird Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 I'm late today - sorry ((((mrs B)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
