rusky123 Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 OK, my younger daughter is getting married in 4 weeks time,she has just bought a house and 2 weeks later has been made redundant. I was a dressmaker by trade, making all the frocks, 6 bridesmaids, 2 have not turned up for fittings, work long hours in my new restaurant, house is an absolute tip. 2 new runners hatched, 1 month old,they are FAB,6 ayleburys on way, eggs started to pip, all of them. Somebody give me a kick up the backside, instead of sewing I am watching ducklings and eggs all the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clootie Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Sounds like you need to do what I'm doing right now - having a lovely big mug of tea and a Marks and Spencer giant cookie !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Couperwife Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 so, all in all - its very calm at your house I would rather be watching ducklings too why have the 2 bridesmaids not been for fittings? does your daughter know? Id start yelling - being mother of the bride, you can get awkward if you want to (with the 'maids) ((hugs)) cathy x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyBoo Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Kick up the backside? I was going to offer you a glass of wine and a comfy chair! Whoever said "if you want something doing ask a busy person" must have had you in mind. Don't forget to put some time aside for yourself! Mrs Bertie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dogs and chickens Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Bless you and huge hugs. Not surprised you feel stressed, I would with all those things to keep me busy and I would want to watch the ducklings too! What naughty bridesmaides, must be very annoying for you. Large glass of wine in order and by the sound of it a nice long relaxing bath. Your poor daughter being made redundant after just buying a house, I hope she is able to find a new job really quickly. Good luck with everything Michelle x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egluntyne Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Sorry about your daughters redundancy. The worst luck. I'd give the 2 naughty bridesmaids an.....erm.....polite reminder that other people have lives to live and that they should be fitting in with your plans and not the other way round. All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 How stressful all that sounds . Poor you . Just threaten to put massive puffy sleeves on their dresses . Bet they turn up then . Hope your daughter finds a new job soon - what rotten timing . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusky123 Posted August 15, 2008 Author Share Posted August 15, 2008 LOL, just had a huge glass of red. and gone down to watch ducklings, fantastic. 1 bridesmaid is very ill, gone to nothing these past few months, really worried abour her,she has lost about 5 stone now weighs about 4, looks like a skeleton and very very weak, being drip fed at night and very poorly, the other is just plain selfish. 6 Aylesbury eggs have started to pip, what a life eh!. Can you think of any good excuses for me not going to work tomorrow?. Oh gosh got to be up in about 5 hours. DD is not a bit phased by her redundacy, Manweb have pulled out all the stops for her. She is such an angel and has more friends than anyone else I know. Still stressed out. Thank you all for your kind thoughts, might stab DH with shears tonight! , make me feel better!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...