scarlettohara Posted June 11, 2011 Author Share Posted June 11, 2011 I'm pleased that you feel so much happier - I do too I looked at him yesterday and though 'ugh no thanks'. I love being on my own, doing my own thing and I've made lots of new friends - wouldn't go back for the world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 Well the song says "sisters are doin it for themselves" and you 2 are proving that you are. Dont know whats wrong with the men of today - i don't know either of you at all but know enough to see you are lovely human beings who are doing the best for your kids are are deserving of better from the male point of view. Well done you. (Sara did you get my PM - sorry just not sure if I'm sending them correctly or OH's computer might be playing up?) Ali x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted June 12, 2011 Author Share Posted June 12, 2011 Yes sorry, she hasn't got back to me yet to will give him a nudge - is next weekend OK ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted June 12, 2011 Share Posted June 12, 2011 Thats fine sorry to hijack thread - the computers old and plays up now and then. Ali x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted June 14, 2011 Author Share Posted June 14, 2011 My solicitor wrote to him today asking him not to come to the house unannounced as a courtesy. I have tried not to be "Ooops, word censored!"y or vindictive and I expect it will come back to haunt me. But at the moment it feels great Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Couperwife Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 horray!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyBoo Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 good for you. Sometimes it's hard to be even civil without sounding rude, but to be honest if that's his attitude you could be Mahatma Ghandi and he'd think you were a trouble maker I've started the wheels in motion to get something else legal sorted today, just one more little tiny box ticked, but it makes you stand taller, hold your head up higher. Your house is YOUR territory, he should ASK to come in. How very dare he Hope he takes note, if he runs true to the same form as my ex, even from a polite but firm notice, you might end up hearing "something" back, but don't let it knock you. His anger and his rudeness just shows his inability to move on and accept that, actually, you're doing quite nicely thank you very much, and without him as well!! How very dare YOU??!! BeckyBoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
migsy Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Because my life might be skint, and you might not be able to afford the boiler repair, and we might both be having to rely on family to help us out, but I don't know about you but my life is FANTASTIC compared to what it was like when we were together. I am broke by the 3rd of EVERY month, I can't afford ice creams when the van comes round, we eat out of Asda and Tesco basics, but I wouldn't swap it and go back, not for anything in the whole wide world. You're soooooo much better off as you are. These financial hiccups are merely that, hiccups. You have to be tested along the way so you recognise when things are great BeckyBoo Well said. I know the feeling! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
