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Can I have some positive vibes please?!

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So Sorry that you are feeling low, You have done so well to cope with all life has thrown at you, you should feel really proud of yourself, look at what you've achieved in such a short time since you told us that you and your OH were splitting. I hope you have a lovely break in Sweden and create lots of new lovely memories.

((((HUGS)))) Big hugs to you Omletina.

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It's such a big change you've gone through in the last year and look how successful you've been - a stunning house in a beautiful location.

 

Of course, there are going to be ups and downs but you've got the support of family and friends - the people who ultimately matter. Keep strong and you know I'm only down the road if you want a chat (or just to vent!).

 

Hope you feel brighter soon.

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Fancy a visit from a Yorkie when you get back? You have free licence to use very VERY bad language about the situation and him as much as you want....then we can play with the cats and chicks. It would be lovely to see you (and it will give you the chance to tell me off to - I need it!)

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Fancy a visit from a Yorkie when you get back? You have free licence to use very VERY bad language about the situation and him as much as you want....then we can play with the cats and chicks. It would be lovely to see you (and it will give you the chance to tell me off to - I need it!)

 

Aw, that would be just the perfect tonic I need! Yes please! Telling you off will make me feel much better (although you can also tell me off as my liver count is up so perhaps I need to cut down on the vino?!! :whistle::anxious::wink: )

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Lots of hugs coming from me too ((((((( :D ))))))))))).

 

I hope you feel better soon, what a below the belt punch, i mean a letter to your Mum?? It really does sound as if he is having trouble dealing with it, That is so low......... what did he think he was achieving by that?!!

 

you sound like a lovely person and I really appreciated you picking me up last week with my PA worries. Things will get better for you, you have such a lot to deal with. I am thinking of you and pushing my positive vibes all the way up north to you. :D

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When things come to an final end I think there is always a void and it's this void you need to fill. A child leaving home, loosing someone you have cared for, losing a pet. Even if you want to get rid of the problem there is still a void. Anti-depressants are not always the answer, but I am no doctor. It is a shame it's not summer as you can get out and about more. Crying is not a bad thing, have a good cry when you need to. Try and take up some form of exercise, even a brisk walk, that really helps with depression. Join a keep fit type group they are always good for a laugh: :lol: and if you can go to adult classes of some sort; I teach pottery and we laugh :lol: all the time. Things will get better and you will enjoy and appreciate your new life all the more. I think we all have bad times at some point in our lives it make us stronger and more compassionate. Why not arrange an omlet meet up :?: I wish you all the best.

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Try and take up some form of exercise, even a brisk walk, that really helps with depression. Join a keep fit type group they are always good for a laugh: :lol:

Hi, thanks all for your comments and support. Part of the problem is that I have arthritis and limited mobility, I agree exercise is a good lift for depression, but in my case exercise would have me laid up for a week so doesn't help!! :roll: The cold, damp weather doesn't exactly help. :?

 

I don't know what I'd do without my lovely Omleteers out there, you are all such a support and I have made some absolutely fabulous friends for life through this forum!

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First of all......HUGE HUGS SWEETIE XXXXXXXXXXXXX

 

Second of all................do not expect your body or your mind to react the way you think that it should do.

 

I went through some tough times a few years ago, but then I moved to my dream house, with room for all my chooks :lol: , changed my job to one where I was happy instead of miserable, and we got married.

 

3 things that should have made me happy........and did it?........no!!! .........I entered the deepest and darkest and longest spell of depression I have ever had :( .

 

It was if my my brain was waiting for me to be in a state to be able to deal with all the stuff I had been bottling up for all the years before..........then it went........"OK, so your happy now?.......time to deal with all this mess then"

 

Please do not punish yourself for feeling this way, you have been through so much, and as this is a family forum, I can't say how I really feel about that letter he has just written but I will tell you feelings about that in my terms when I next see you :wink: .

 

Remember........you could have taken him to the cleaners!! and you haven't, because you are a nice person, who is not greedy. Do not believe for a minute anything he has written.

 

Let your boys give you some big cuddles, I'll be thinking of you, and in contact about next Tuesdays Poultry Club meeting xxxx

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