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Cant believe i'm emotional .. Silly me

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Years ago we bought our son a lovely Piano as he wanted to teach himself to play ... Over those years he progressed extremely well, and we have had the pleasure of lovely tunes ringing out from his bedroom, some of them composed by himself which were really lovely ... Anyway, last week he dropped a bombshell, and said that he felt he was losing interest and that he didn't want it in his room anymore (its a big piece of furniture) ... I asked him if he was definitely making the right decision, and he said that he was, so, very sadly we had to put it up for sale ... It sold really quickly and is being picked up tomorrow afternoon, and what has amazed me is that it has made me feel really emotional, its like a member of the family is leaving the home .. How daft is that!! I wish that I had somewhere in my little bungalow to put it, but I havn't. Go on everybody, tell me to get a life :cry:

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That is sad :( . However, kids do move on from one interest to another so if he says he's not interested any more, I suppose there's not much you can do. He still has that grounding and talent though and will no doubt pick it up again when he's older. You may find he picks up another instrument (my ES took up electric guitar after giving up the trumpet).

 

We have that (fairly expensive) trumpet in the attic which I can't quite get rid of. I'm hoping ES will play it again some day.

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I wouldn't dream of telling you to get a life....far from it !

As a family who love music and most of us actually play clarinets.....and a flute....(a piano was just too big to carry around yet we learnt to play a little , we are a family of small hands, lol) if one of us decided to give up and sell an instrument i would be sad too . Hours of a persons life has gone into it , and i bet it never moaned at bum notes or temper at not getting a bar or two right but just sat there patiently waiting for the next meeting to play, i would be in floods of tears......i don't play my pal often due to my arthritis but i couldn't sell it .

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One thing you can be happy about though is that it will always be a bit of your son. Even if he never plays the piano again it's part of what he is now and part of what you are too. So don't feel sad but enjoy all your lovely memories.

What a good point patsylabrador. We have a very good cello that I would be very upset to get rid of DD now plays a less expensive one due to risk of damaging the good one with young children running around, when I retire I hope to play the cello, it has been one of those things that I have always wanted to do.

 

I can understand why you are upset HP. Hugs from here.

 

Chrissie

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I can completely understand you getting upset. We have a house full on musical instruments and musicians. I would be very sad if they all disappeared. It is a shame that you had an instrument that was too big to keep for when he fancied playing :( I am sure there will be a time in his life when he will want to take it up again. My very musically talented ES has just left for Uni and I really hope that he finds time to play but I am not sure it is high on his list of priorities at the moment :(

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What lovely replies, ive got the biggest lump in my throat, and you have all helped me realise the reason why im feeling sad ... You are right, it is more about my son, and the emotion, time and effort he has put into this instrument, rather than the instrument itself ... I asked him a couple of hours ago whether he would be sad to see it go, and he said "no, not at all". Somehow that comment and the way he said it helped me to snap myself out of the silly mood I was in earlier. The Piano is going to a young music student who has managed by herself to save up all the money to pay for it, so im really pleased about the home its going to.

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Well, its gone, and I was very brave ... Not a tear, or even a lump in my throat. I think my frame of mind today was much better than yesterday.

 

The mother and daughter who picked it up were lovely, really bubbly and friendly, and I think it helped me not to feel sad, I told them I was upset to see it go, and they fully understood where I was coming from :) There was a little moment of panic when we all thought it wasn't going to fit in their 4x4, but with a couple of attempts we just about managed to get it in .. They had driven all the way from Bournemouth, so it would have been awful for them!

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