Jump to content
Cinnamon

GCSE results?

Recommended Posts

We are stressed up here too!! 21st can't come quick enough in some respects - yet it also means back to school in a week! YS has had a few bad dreams about it already He has not had an easy ride though school following in OS's footsteps who just never seemed to put a foot wrong anywhere academically nor sportingly. As an only child myself I never had that pressure and it is certainly not something we have harped on about. Nevertheless it seems to be there anyway. YS is my 'precious one' in a way as we nearly lost him to a brain tumour when he was 8 so in many ways I am just happy to still have him here and well. He doesn't see it like that though which I do understand. I have told him he has to pass chemistry - as I can't have a son of a chemist not passing! :)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

We are stressed up here too!! 21st can't come quick enough in some respects - yet it also means back to school in a week! YS has had a few bad dreams about it already He has not had an easy ride though school following in OS's footsteps who just never seemed to put a foot wrong anywhere academically nor sportingly. As an only child myself I never had that pressure and it is certainly not something we have harped on about. Nevertheless it seems to be there anyway. YS is my 'precious one' in a way as we nearly lost him to a brain tumour when he was 8 so in many ways I am just happy to still have him here and well. He doesn't see it like that though which I do understand. I have told him he has to pass chemistry - as I can't have a son of a chemist not passing! :)

 

Oh that must have been so hard for you when your son was ill. Good to know he has recovered.

 

My middle child followed a clever older child and has had to put up with a load of rubbish from some of the family (extended). I always tell him we can't all be the same. When daughter went to uni he thought it would be good to go as well, but, after being in 6th form for a few months dropped out and is now an apprentice air conditioning engineer and it suits him just fine.

 

Good luck to everyone waiting for results :D

Link to comment
Share on other sites

We'd actually forgotten about them and I had no idea when they were due :shock::oops::oops: . So, next thursday evening we'll need to be standing by the old inbox then, waiting for that email to arrive :wink:

 

Seb's working on 6 more IGCSEs now, poor lad, and with the work he's doing at school here it's almost like sitting those exams at home was in a different lifetime. Very strange :shock:

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Usually you need to have set up some form of authorisation to collect the result on behalf of your child. If no-one turns up then they are put in the post. It may be that if you contact your son's school you could still set this up before next Thursday. Need to be quick though.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

i think you need a letter from your son giving you permission. But you may not wish to queue up with all those 16 year olds! I think the results will arrive in the post on Friday anyway. :?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[My middle child followed a clever older child and has had to put up with a load of rubbish from some of the family (extended). I always tell him we can't all be the same. When daughter went to uni he thought it would be good to go as well, but, after being in 6th form for a few months dropped out and is now an apprentice air conditioning engineer and it suits him just fine.

 

We had similar...2 older siblings studying law. Youngest was having none of it.

 

Despite very respectable GCSE's....a mixture of A's, B's and C's, which were a miracle in themselves as he hadn't opened a book in earnest for 5 years. :? , he declined to stay on at school and is doing an apprenticeship in plumbing, having successfully passed the first stage of a 4 year course.

 

Two of his friends who stayed on gave up by October half term, and one more after AS's.

 

Now two of his friends have done really well and are going to the universities of their choice, having got the grades they needed, but several others didn't and are having to go through clearing etc.

 

I can't tell you what a relief it has been to us not to have to worry about this. :D

 

And ads he points out, he will not have £15k of debt round his neck and will be capable of earning a decent living in 2 years time.

 

Can't argue with that. :D

 

I wouldn't stop any youngster taking up a trade instead of persuing the academic route tbh.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I'm inclined to agree that the clever child is the one that doesn't go to Uni and saddle his/herself with a mountain of debt.

 

I agree entirely :D . I think it's a bit sad really though, I was lucky enough to be able to go to uni and take a pretty useless degree in English and history, and I learned far more about growing up, being independent and so on than I ever did academically, but that was 20+ years ago when all tuition was free and grants were available to help with living expenses. I graduated with no debt and a whole heap of life experience that I feel guilty about denying my children :( . But these days some of the debt that young people emerge with is obscene.....how are they ever going to be able to afford to pay it back, as well as build a good life for themselves, including buying their own homes, cars and possibly having children unless they become high wage earners or have very wealthy parents :?:(:(

 

If either of my children want to pursue careers that need a degree then I shall support them every inch of the way. However, I've already made it clear that we can't afford to fund a Mickey Mouse degree :shock: There are a lot of degrees out there that don't actually equip young people to work in the industry that they want, but sound attractive and interesting, and create great revenue for the universities offering them :shock: .

 

I think it's a bit the same over her though as well. Massey University in Palmerston North has just introduced a new degree in magic.....what the heck do you do with a 2:2 in magic :shock::lol::lol::lol:

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.




×
×
  • Create New...