Ain't Nobody Here Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Just hoping things are OK too? Have you managed to get some practical help yet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joojoo Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Hi Bex Just wanted to say that I've been thinking of you and hope things are settling down a bit now and that you've managed to get a few things sorted out. I found the Money Savings Expert website was fantastic too. The forum users on the debtwannabe part were so genuinely helpful to me when I was going through a rough time 12 months or so back. Love & Best Wishes Jue xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiggy Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 I. Have, in the past two days, had letters from three utilities threatening court action as it now transpires that despite saying he was still paying the bills, he hasn't been. I've managed to avoid the court action obviously by making arrangements to pay in installments but having rung the ex to say that I'd had the letters he now informs me that he has no work. this sounds horribly familiar, a relative of mine found herself in the same situation, ex had spent all his money and told her he had paid the bills he then did a bunk one day and she found a box full of unpaid bills and court orders, thankfully the court was very understanding and a warrent was issued to bring him to court. A payment plan was drawn up with help from the legal aid solicitor, she is still paying this off 5 years later but was liable for half, goodness knows what he is doing. She is now in a rented house but is happier to know exactly where she stands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helly Welly Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Becky, i'm really sorry for your troubles. I hope things are working out for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathybc Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 hi Becky, so sorry that you are having to cope with this as well as everything else. Lots of hugs from me and the zoo. I would certainly recommend the CAB for free unbiased advice x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...