Olly Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 not as random as it sounds ... this is all you need, to hold a tea-party for Contact the Elderly and make some isolated, lonely old people very happy! I've been reading about what other people did with their weekends - well, yesterday I had six elderly people and their volunteer drivers round for tea. We had egg sandwiches (of course!) and cakes made with my very own organic free-range eggs - all my visitors were fascinated by the chickens, and there was some reminiscing about keeping them during the war. We drank gallons of tea, and had a good chat. I've been a volunteer with Contact the Elderly for a couple of years, and it struck me that some of you Omleteers, especially the ones who enjoy baking, are just the sort of people who might be up for this. I also volunteer as a driver, which means I pick the same two ladies up every month and take them out somewhere else for tea; host/esses usually only do it once or twice a year. Some of our members have no family, and these monthly meetings make a huge difference to them. It's brilliant fun, and you don't need a big house or to be a brilliant cook - just borrow some chairs, and make lots of pots of tea! Drivers just need to have a roadworthy car - our members are not fussy! and you get to have a lovely tea somewhere different every month. Maybe some of you are already volunteers - or maybe you know someone elderly who is very lonely and would like to go to a tea-party? I'd be happy to explain more if anyone is interested, Hope you don't mind me using the forum to try and spread the word - www.contact-the-elderly.org will tell you more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riane Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 what a brill idea...after watching the programme tonight about the care in homes I feel very sad that our older people are not respected and cared for more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egluntyne Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 Wow Olly how marvellous! I bet they had a lovely time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 Brilliant idea - I may give it a go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnnieP Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 Lesley, they'd LOVE to see all your animals! What a great thing to do! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen & co. Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 What a lovely idea We have a Tea Club here, where the older members of the village get together and arrange bingo, whist, trips out etc. I have tried to enrol my Grandad so many times, as he is always complaining of having nothing to do, but he refuses Perhaps this would suit him better karen x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paola Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 What a great idea Once middle one starts school in Sept I could do some driving I think it is great to give something back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 What a fantastic idea - The Balamory House has both a downstairs loo and a giant tea-pot, so I may well get in touch with them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowy Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 I love this idea - but I don't have a downstairs loo Never mind - I've got 15 under 5's tomorrow instead. All coming round (with mothers!) to make pizza! I think I know which group I'd rather have ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olly Posted May 29, 2007 Author Share Posted May 29, 2007 wow, thanks for such a positive response! there are branches all over the UK, so there's sure to be one near you - or maybe they will set up a new one! The tea-parties only last from 3.00 - 5.00, so it's just two or three hours a month (for drivers) or half a day, once or twice a year, for host/esses. I love baking, but that's just me - one of our hosts is a single man, and he buys everything except the sandwiches. I got involved after my own elderly parents died (wouldn't have had time while they were still around) - with five of us in the family, my mother was never short of visitors, but sadly there are quite a lot of elderly people out there who have "Ooops, word censored!"ody at all to visit them. Conversation never stops, and trust me, it's not all about the war - I have two 90-year olds who are devoted to Saturday night TV and love to discuss the latest Pop Idol/X Factor/Joseph shows! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...