Ruth Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 So, so sorry to hear that, Shona. It is an awful thing to go through. Cyber hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fleata Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 really sorry to hear that Shona. big hugs from me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Sorry to hear your sad news Shona - only got back late last night. Big hugs from here as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Louise Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Oh Shona that is so sad but sometimes nature knows best. Cyber hugs and remember where we are if you need to talk about things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beauty-Box Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 I'm really sorry to hear your tragic news, shona. I'm sending big hugs your way, Love from Rebecca.x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurpleHen Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Dear Shona, I am very sorry to hear your news. Lots of Love, Hugs and Best Wishes Jackie x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dogmother Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 I've only just caught up with this Shona.... I am sooo sad for you . Take care of yourself, and send my sympathies to Mr Chookie hubbie too. Just wish that I could hug you Loads of love coming through the ether to you, though. It takes a while to come to terms with things like this. I have one lovely healthy daughter, but can't have any more. I just had to move on and count my blessings. That's one way of dealing with it. CXXX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunkin Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Genuine sympathy here from me too Shona - so many shocks, life just doesn't seem fair sometimes. Even if nature does know best it still hurts! I'm glad you have the support of your wonderful family around you and all of us here too if you need us. Carol x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 Just wanted to say thanks again for all the support. Life is beginning to return to normal, although I hate the way people either ignore it completely (even though I know that they know), or try and protect me from any mention of babies or pregnancy. All I have to face now is my return to work, but I've got another week before I need face that. I have planted a rose bush in the garden in the babys memory - it seemed like the thing to do as we planted a rose bush for Caity, and willow trees for both the boys, and feel better every day. Thanks again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buffie Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 That's lovely Shona, thinking of you! BBx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 22, 2006 Share Posted January 22, 2006 What an excellent idea Shona. Glad to hear oyu're not back at work for another week. These things take time to get over, and a lot of people don't understand or know what to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicola H Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 That is a lovely thng to do Shona, glad you are starting to get back to normal, it will take a while for your hormones to return to normal though so take it slowly............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunkin Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 That's a lovely idea Shona. Roses are beautiful. I guess some people think they are being kind by not mentioning emotional things? The ones who avoid difficult subjects to save themselves embarrasment aren't worth you worrying about! Take care of you x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dogmother Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Glad to hear that you're on the road to feeling better, both mentally and physically. Lovely idea re the rose bush Take care, and big hugs form us all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popcorn Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 It's good to hear you sounding so positive Shona. We never really know how long these things take to fully recover from do we, but glad you are on your way and have a little ray of sunshine back in your life. Gina xxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mel (& Paul) Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 What a lovely, wonderful idea. People do often find it hard to know what to say, and they think they are "sparing" you by not mentioning it. I know when a friend was widowed she felt quite frustrated but appreciated people didnt know how to start the conversation. You know you can always come here anytime you want to talk and we will be happy to oblige Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dogmother Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 That's nice Mel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
