Geoid Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 I've contributed to this thread already but must say I thought it was a thread about watches . Why would a thread rated 18 talk about watches? (on second thoughts, don't answer that ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 I've contributed to this thread already but must say I thought it was a thread about watches . Why would a thread rated 18 talk about watches? (on second thoughts, don't answer that ) Oh yes, I have a Kahuna surf watch....I had forgotten about that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronze Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 All this talk of spurting is a little too close for comfort. It was waking up hot stciky and sweaty I hated. (and will hate again I'm sure...ho hum) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 It is illegal to stop a mother breastfeeding in Scotland, and so it should be throughout the country. I have pathetically misfiring boobs that failed to work until all my babies were around 6 weeks old and partial to a bottle, so have never had the chance to test the law out, but I believe that companies have been successfully taken to court in Scotland over just such incidents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirl Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I have been challenged when breastfeeding. I took my daughter swimming and once in the pool she decided she was hungry. I sat on a bench by the edge of the pool and fed her. After a while I was approached by a woman who told me I couldn't feed there and I would have to go into the changing rooms to do it. Apparently I was embarrassing the lifeguards! I was embarrassed and angry. Fortunately by then bubs had had enough so we went into the pool. When I left I spoke to the duty manager who apologised and said she would speak to the staff concerned. I'm still feeding my youngest who is 21 months and will for quite some time. I haven't set a finish date but aim to feed until at least 2 inline with the World Health Organisation recommendation. I hope you have the time and energy to complain because Madcatwoman deserves everything she gets. RE the poll I'm with Bronze it should have an option to say "Yes but do it discreetly". Ok you may flash a bit when sorting yourself out but after that you should be able to be more subtle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Why would a thread rated 18 talk about watches? (on second thoughts, don't answer that ) Why would a thread about something natural and not about the birds and the bees but about dinner need to be 18-rated anyway? That's the way society's gone! It's all become about rudity and nudity! *removes Clarkson world's-gone-mad outrage chip* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Bebe au Lait Nursing Covers from http://www.embellishedmom.com That's what I was referring to! - thanks Mark! It has a different name over here.....but still can't remember what it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looney Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I have a bebe au lait cover and also one that is a bit more like a poncho. I do think it is personal choice as to whether mothers choose to breastfeed or not and friends of mine have been made to feel like rubbish mums by other people for not breastfeeding or for not breastfeeding for more than the first few weeks. I took Bogwoppit to the doctor the other week and was given a lecture about my decision to start getting him used to a bottle due to having to return to work..... He was 8 months old at the time yet I was made to feel like i would be treating him badly! If I could afford to stay at home I would carry on b'feeding him three times a day I struggle with expressing so that isn't an option. Sometimes I think whatever you choose to do someone will find fault in it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angels4 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Bebe au Lait Nursing Covers from http://www.embellishedmom.com That's what I was referring to! - thanks Mark! It has a different name over here.....but still can't remember what it is. Mind you, I don't think you should have to use one of these, but if you are modest and concerned about showing your belly something like this would be good. You have the right to nurse in public, and regardless of personal modesty or where you may be at the time, your baby needs to nurse on schedule. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MedusA Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I'd be complaining to M&S about catlady. The way she spoke to you was dreadful. Do it - they might even send you a voucher to say sorry !! I'm with Clootie on this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KAZAROO Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 My masterpiece is in full swing- I will allow a sneak preview before I send it I x-rated the thread as: 1. A joke.... Warped me. 2. So "Ooops, word censored!"ody was too offended when they read it! Off to collaborate a ker-fuffle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Bebe au Lait Nursing Covers from http://www.embellishedmom.com Why don't they just expect mothers to go out in public in a sack tied at the top of the head?! My Clarkson chip has reactivated. It's an outrage in pretty fabric form: I urge folks on facebook to read this and join the group: http://bliss-breastfeeding.blogspot.com/2007/07/facebook-still-removing-breastfeeding.html We're all behind you on this letter of complaint. Outraged!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronze Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Think they should change their name Bliss is a prem babies charity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looney Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I have to admit that I found my nursing cover a real asset.....not because I felt that I had to wear one when feeding in a public place but because I felt more comfortable having it handy to help me cover my boobs/belly/back when stopping to feed Bogwoppit in any given place at any time. It was my choice, I bought it! I didn't always use it but as I mentioned before he is a real wriggler and it was hard to get him a position he wanted to be in and latched on and feeding! I am always envious of those ladies who can effortlessly start feeding without the commotion I used to have to go through! I do not tend to wear baggy t shirts or shirts, I'm more of a vest top kinda gal so an extra layer such as a shawl really helped. Each to their own I say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ygerna Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Bebe au Lait Nursing Covers from http://www.embellishedmom.com That's what I was referring to! - thanks Mark! It has a different name over here.....but still can't remember what it is. I think it might be the rather insultingly named 'Hooter Hider'. I think the womans attitude in M&S was insulting. I hope your letter is dealt with appropriately. Which store was it BYW? I must say I suspect you were treated so abysmally due to one womans prejudice rather than because of the stores policy but I think a letter is required so that the store can be made aware that they have some training to be done. Let us know how you get on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 No, that's the American name - the one I heard was slightly better......I'll remember it one day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angels4 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Bebe au Lait Nursing Covers from http://www.embellishedmom.com Why don't they just expect mothers to go out in public in a sack tied at the top of the head?! My Clarkson chip has reactivated. It's an outrage in pretty fabric form: I urge folks on facebook to read this and join the group: http://bliss-breastfeeding.blogspot.com/2007/07/facebook-still-removing-breastfeeding.html We're all behind you on this letter of complaint. Outraged!!! I'm on your side. I'm not saying that a nursing mother "go out in public in a sack tied at the top of the head?! " However this is an alternative for the nursing mother who might be feeling a little embarrassed or shy to expose their bellies, Again may I stress not that she should. as it was designed by a "nursing mother" I'm sure more for her comfort than anybody else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 I'm on your side. I'm not saying that a nursing mother "go out in public in a sack tied at the top of the head?! " However this is an alternative for the nursing mother who might be feeling a little embarrassed or shy to expose their bellies, Again may I stress not that she should. as it was designed by a "nursing mother" I'm sure more for her comfort than anybody else. I agree Mark - I've seen at first hand how this can give confidence to a new mother - it was used for her convenience, not to save anyones blushes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egluntyne Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Think they should change their nameBliss is a prem babies charity The Bliss mentioned in the link is based in Canada. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 I'm on your side. I'm not saying that a nursing mother "go out in public in a sack tied at the top of the head?! " However this is an alternative for the nursing mother who might be feeling a little embarrassed or shy to expose their bellies, Again may I stress not that she should. as it was designed by a "nursing mother" I'm sure more for her comfort than anybody else. I agree Mark - I've seen at first hand how this can give confidence to a new mother - it was used for her convenience, not to save anyones blushes! I agree too. If they had been around when I was nursing & it kept my unruly J cups out of the way when in public, I would certainly have bought one. Surely anything that promotes breast feeding & confidence in the mother to do this can not be seen as a bad thing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 'Hooter hider' rather conjures up the image of ladies swaddling a pair of owls in a blanket! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 'Hooter hider' rather conjures up the image of ladies swaddling a pair of owls in a blanket! That would probably be a lot easier than letting loose a size 'J' cup in public! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 'Hooter hider' rather conjures up the image of ladies swaddling a pair of owls in a blanket! That would probably be a lot easier than letting loose a size 'J' cup in public! Lady, put those beaks AWAY! And those feathers! What do you think this is? The RSPB (Royal Society for the Prevention of Breasts)?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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