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[PurpleTree]

Just wanted to send you some big hugs.

 

The Ash tree and plaque sound like a really lovely and lasting memorial.

[yvonne]

I was thinking about what you said about work and your EOH and totally agree with Patricia who suggested you speak to HR about the situation. Can you make an appointment to pop in and see someone you know ? Hopefully they will fully understand and probably didn't think it through at all (these reorganisations can be very impersonal) but if you point out the situation you are in, hopefully together you will be able to come up with an alternative that avoids him being your boss.

[chickencam]

Can't add much to what has been said already, just wanted to say that you are not being unreasonable in any way. You need to put your own feelings first at the moment.

 

Just come here and rant whenever you feel the need.

 

((hugs))

[Sam Palmer]

Jue, I can only echo what's already been said here. Concentrate on doing what's best for you without the burden of how your ex is coping with the situation, you have enough to deal with. Sending you big ((((hugs)))) and thinking of you.

[Couperwife]

((((hugs))))

 

cathy

x

[Janty]

You've had so much good advice here...I can't really add to that but just wanted to let you know that our thoughts are with you.

 

Jan

 

xxx

[chickenNutter]

Joojoo,

 

You are a fantastic, strong and inspirational woman, even if you are not feeling like that at the moment.

 

Eventually the dark times will get shorter and the manageable days longer, and you will smile at memories of your beautiful son.

 

Definitely get local support, someone you can lean on for those difficult tasks and speak to HR about your work situation.

 

Even more hugs from Lancashire.

[Chickvic]

Can't add anything else but sending you some more (((hugs)))

[Groovychook]

Me too...

xxxx

[Chook n Boo Mum]

...and some more from us too {{{hugs}}}

 

Sha x

[Lesley]

.....and more hugs from me as well.

[theherd123]

Jue, you are often in my thoughts and Im also sending you lots of love and hugs xxx

[Treekeeper]

Sending you positive thoughts as it's all I can think to do, I can't even envisage what you are going through, but I do think you are immensely brave. Do what ever you need to re the donations etc "Ooops, word censored!"ody could ever think ill of you whatever you decide. I hope you continue through and there will be light to follow the dark.