AJuff Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 i've had a very emotional few weeks. My piano teacher who was the assistant organist has moved to take up a new post which was very sad. I could barely say goodbye as I was so choked up. Then our associate vicar left, she was lovely. I had to sit out at the side when she had her leaving lunch as I found it all too upsetting. Then on top of that change a member of the choir who I knew died. He leaves a very big space in the back row of choir. It was his funeral this morning which was so beautiful and very moving. I was only released from work for the service and had to return to work to register my class 10 minutes afterwards. My TA took over for a while to allow me to settle myself and I busied myself with work. Thank goodness I have two teaching students who were teaching and I was just overseeing. I don't like change, as much as it's inevitable . . . it upsets me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mollyripkim Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 That all sounds more than just change, no wonder all these things have upset you so don't be too hard on yourself, you sound a really nice person as you obviously care about people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitchHazel Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 Sorry to hear about all this AJ. I wish I could think of something more comforting to say. HUgs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plum Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 It's not change it's different losses and not surprised you find it hard. Perhaps the new teacher and associate vicar will be good friends as well and help fill the gaps in your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyhole kate Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 That's an awful lot of changes all at once no wonder you feel unsettled you are obviously a very caring person {{{Big Hugs }}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowberry Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 That's a rollercoaster of changes for you in such a small space of time;huggles to you; I hope things look a bit brighter very soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 No wonder you're feeling sad, its always an emotional time when we lose friends and family and to have people that we care for move away. As others have said hopefully you will come to see the replacements as friends in time. Sending (((hugs))). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
