Ain't Nobody Here Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 My fingers have probably been loosened by a bottle of wine at lunch with some great friends but I can't help feeling a little sad that my eldest niece got married today and I wasn't there . Long story but no invite for me, her uncle, cousins or granny, thanks to my scumbag, thieving, lying, cheating brother. His birth mother/brother/his wife are there (who he's known for 5 minutes) but not the mum who brought him up or his sister. Not that she would have managed anyway but that's beside the point. Well, as far as I'm concerned he no longer has a sister. Not that he'll care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Big hugs - he aint worth it. The old saying you can choose your friends and not your family is so true. Ali x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandmashazzie Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 You are feeling sad because you are a genuine and nice person.Who would'nt feel left out. He on the other hand is thoughtless and uncaring. As said families Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patsylabrador Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 I'm glad you had a good old drink with your mates. The best revenge is to live well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlottechicken Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 He is bitter because you snapped the purse on his fingers, you have a clear conscience, he doesn't. Maybe one day his family will realise the truth. I have also had my fingers loosened by alcohol today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted May 16, 2015 Author Share Posted May 16, 2015 He is bitter because you snapped the purse on his fingers Love that image . I am putting plans in place to once again snap that purse that he's expecting to dip into . Revenge is a dish ... etc etc . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlottechicken Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 You go girl! Why am I eloquent after imbibing alcohol? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luvachicken Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 Their loss ANH. I'm sure your niece will always feel guilty for not having asked her Aunt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted May 17, 2015 Share Posted May 17, 2015 Hi hope you are feeling a bit less upset today. Another one who enjoyed a good drink with friends last night and we got on the subject of families. Theres a bad apple in all famillies. Best revenge is to enjoy life and I will leave it there as I could get a bit rude. Try not to dwell on it. XX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ain't Nobody Here Posted May 17, 2015 Author Share Posted May 17, 2015 Thanks, everyone . Still feeling a little sad. Didn't help that out of all the lovely Facebook messages of good luck/congratulations/etc for her wedding day, mine is the only one she didn't "like". Silly but that does hurt a bit. I wonder if she'll send a thank you for the wedding present we sent her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purplemaniacs Posted May 17, 2015 Share Posted May 17, 2015 Ah that is sad ANH. It is a shame that she didn't like your message, perhaps she was worried about upsetting her father, would he have been able to see that she had liked your message. I don't do facebook so not quite sure how it all works I hope you get a thank you card, you deserve that at the very least. Hope you feel better soon, families are just horrid at times. Chrissie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkysmum Posted May 18, 2015 Share Posted May 18, 2015 Hugs from us all at Sparkys house xxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted May 18, 2015 Author Share Posted May 18, 2015 Thanks. Alli . Happily, she has now "liked" my comment on her FB page. Stupid to let that affect me, I know, but it does feel a little better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitchHazel Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 It's not stupid. What has happened to you - all of it, but especially the lies which have made your niece snub you - is very unfair. You've worked hard to get on with things, to suppress/"forget" the injustice. It doesn't take much for that the feeling of injustice to jump up and catch you unaware, all the more painful because you had thought you had it under control. It WILL pass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
