TheGirlsMum Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Hope it goes your way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Griffin Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Fingers & toes crossed for you xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted September 12, 2011 Author Share Posted September 12, 2011 Adjourned until 9th December as ex hadn't complied with the court re documentation re inheritance and property details for me and him. He made a complete fool of himself - interrupting (big no no and the lady judge was very grumpy anyway as everything 2 hours late). The he waited outside the door of the court and as my solicitor and I left he lunged at me shouting, I had to go back into court to avoid him and the clerk asked him to leave - luckily the judge saw it all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClaireG Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Sorry it's been adjourned again ((hug)). Looks like the court will now know exactly what he is like though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beach chick Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 oh scarlett, when you'd built up all that adrenalin... but at least they all know what he's like now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted September 12, 2011 Author Share Posted September 12, 2011 I've only just realised how shocked I was When I got to the tube station he was waiting outside, amazingly there was a policeman nearby so I explained the situation and he walked me to the station and waited until I got on the escalator - he was so nice and said not to worry the court would have made a note of what happened. He has now emailed accusing me of turning the boys against him and dragging everything out (he left 2 years ago, these things do take time) - my solicitor has told me to forward all emails to him from now on, it's horrible I just want enough money to buy a house for me and my sons - how can I put them out on the street On a positive note - it is my birthday in October and I am being taken to the St Pancras Grand Champagne and Oyster bar by an old boyfriend - haven't seen him since I was 18 and he contacted me on fb (he is bringing a friend and so am I ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicken bark Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Isn't it funny - he is the one that turned up not prepared and he accuses YOU or dragging it out! I'm so glad the policeman was there - it must have been really uncomfortable for all concerned and as you say he hasn't done himself any favours with the court. Well done you on keeping your cool and I'm glad you have something nice to look forward to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chook n Boo Mum Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Sara, I have another friend going through a very similar scenario......big {{{hugs}}} hunny xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlettohara Posted September 12, 2011 Author Share Posted September 12, 2011 Thanks and I sympathise with your friend - they seem to completely blank out the fact that they cheated on YOU ! My ex thinks that if he doesn't want to answer the legal questions he can just say 'I'm not discussing that' . He was always quite aggressive and now it's come back to bite me on the bum ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tutti Frutti Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 He was always quite aggressive and now it's come back to bite me on the bum ! Actually, from where I'm sitting, it's more likely to bite HIM on the bum! And quite right too! I hope things move for you now... he's shown his true colours to the powers that be! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Oh Sara - bet you wonder what you saw in him - hes doing himself no favours is he? Love ali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chick wiggle Posted September 13, 2011 Share Posted September 13, 2011 Oh Sara, how horrible for you, as others have said, at least he has shown his true colours to the court and that wont go unforgotten by them. The policeman sounds lovely too, nice to have a personnal escort eh? Hope you have a lovely time with your friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purplemaniacs Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 there was a policeman nearby so I explained the situation and he walked me to the station and waited until I got on the escalator - he was so nice and said not to worry the court would have made a note of what happened. So glad that there was a policeman in the right place at the right time for you and he was so understanding, when you go to court next can you take someone with you? Sorry things are so difficult at the moment, I hope they improve soon. Chrissie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Chick Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Just sending hugs xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
