BeckyBoo Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 (edited) ......well, you know what it's like, people kind of work out that you're a bit animal mad they tend to kind of come to you with all the animals that they can't find homes for...... So today at work a friend of a friend has had to move into a flat and apparently her two cats are miserable so, very reluctantly she's rehoming them. A long haired ginger mum aged 4 1/2 and her son also ginger aged 3 1/2. Well I've always had a bit of a soft spot for ginger cats, and I always used to have more than one so I kind of seem to have ended up saying yes to both So now we come to it, I have Frank who is a big fat ferocious tabby boy who hunts things and kills things and drags their remains home to show me how clever he is and I'm wondering the best way to do the introductions and still have a house left..... The two newbies will be confined to my bedroom to start with, then I was planning on letting them into the rest of the house for various amounts of time when the dog and Frank are out. Shutting them downstairs during the night so Frank can resume his rightful place sleeping between my feet (if he's stil talking to me by then ) Then gradually introducing the dog as she's easiest to have some control over and then eventually just sort of letting the mogs get on with it whilst breaking up any real fisticuffs! Anyone have any other handy hints and advice? Introducing new pets is something I always find stressful but I'm happy to perservere BeckyBoo Edited March 31, 2009 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellekatz Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Slowly is good - you have the right idea. You'll just have to wait and see how Frank takes to them - he might just suprise you......... And a Feliway plug in will also help them all to settle down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olly Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 sounds the right approach - that way they'll get used to the smell of each other before they come face-to-face. And don't force confrontation, when they do get to know each other feed them separately so there's no territory issues at first. It's a bit like chicken introductions, take it slowly! how lovely. I've never had a ginger cat (and they'll go so well with your red hair ... ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisnrob Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Sounds like you've got the right idea. You can do a lot of sharing of scents by moving bedding between them all and by stroking them and then moving on to stroke the other(s). You might also like to try feeding them separately when they are all allowed the run of the house together as feeding time can be fractious. Can also be useful to let them see each other without being able to get to each other - some sort of 'gate' across a doorway or even a pen can be useful. Rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 As far as I understand male cats tend to be more laid back than female cats. When we first moved to Cheltenham we lived in a flat with a strict no pets rule. I had a lovely velvet black cat who adopted me when her original owners in the flat opposite me in Chester did a runner from the police. I asked my grandparents if they would take her in, they had 2 male black cats and they were always fine with her. She was the one with the problem, from the moment I opened the basket she swore, and she was always aloof from them. She was probably in a fairly bad mood because she had just endured a 3 hour train journey with me. She lived with them for about 10 years and was much happier when the male cats passed on. Good luck with the new arrivals and don't forget pics. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aunty e Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 Boy cats are more laid back, my girly cats are always the problem with new cats. Feliway and lots of exciting food will help. I run a distraction game with new cats, feeding them near each other with things that they're not normally allowed to have, like chicken and tuna. They forget to hiss then. Playing with new cat near old cat, or vice versa, is also good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 I agree with everyone else and that boys are more laid back. I have no great words of wisdom but just want to wish you luck. I'd love a ginger cat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyBoo Posted March 31, 2009 Author Share Posted March 31, 2009 OMG, they are SO beautiful! Lulu is a rather large lady she is light ginger with white paws, a white bib and a white spot on her tail (she may have to go on a bit of a diet to be honest) and Freddie is a semi long haired dark ginger boy. She is SO confident, already exploring the upstairs, has had cuddles and playtime, he is more reserved (mind you, three excited shrieking children would make any cat a little nervous! Obviously I've got NO hope of getting the children to bed, so I'm off upstairs with the camera to see if I can get a snapshot or two. (I've already had to pull a chest of drawers out where Fred got behind it and couldn't get out again! Then Lulu climbed into the chest of drawers before I'd put it back together again......it's going to be a long night! BeckyBoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyBoo Posted March 31, 2009 Author Share Posted March 31, 2009 Here's Freddie (SOOO gorgeous!) And Mum - Lulu, (SOOO friendly!!) Kids STILL not asleep, Frank hasn't realised yet, it's going to be chaos and mayhem BeckyBoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickvic Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Gorgeous cats BeckyBoo! Hope the kids finally went to sleep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 They are so beautiful. How lucky are you. I hope all three cats settle together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitchHazel Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I love ginger cats, lucky you! Page 7 ("introducing cats to cats") of this leaflet may help http://www.cats.org.uk/catcare/leaflets/EG02-Welcomehome.pdf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Lovely cats They are both rather ample aren't they All the better for cuddling Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aunty e Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 JEALOUS!!!!! What lovverly fwuffy wuffy cuddly monsters they are! WANT! (hopes slinky minky serengeti and maus are not listening) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HENthusiastic Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Lovely gingers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellekatz Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I love gingers!! They look like beautiful cats !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamebird Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Good luck with the intros. Poor Frank, I would love to see his face when he first realises he's got company. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chelsea Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 they are gorgeous! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omletina Kyckling Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 Lovely lovely lovely lovely. Want want want want!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groovychook Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 They're beautiful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dancing cloud Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 They are gorgeous! and lucky to have found themselves such a good home How's Frank taking it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickvic Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I was just wondering how Frank had taken the news? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyBoo Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 Well an update, Frank has not taken to our new arrivals particularly well! But then I didn't expect him to to be honest and it's still early days. Freddie and Lulu have both found favourite sleeping places - Freddie on top of my wardrobe so I have put a duvet cover up there for him to sleep on, Lulu on Georgias top bunk. They are confident and friendly around me and the two girls, Harrison is still a bit boisterous for them and Delilah is beside herself trying to say hello! She's been SO good, I took her to meet them and got her to sit in my bedroom (she's not normally allowed upstairs so it was a bit of a treat!) and the cats sat hissing and spitting on the other side of the room, but we're got her closer and closer and they can already tolerate her sitting near them without them making a fuss. BUT as soon as she moves, they're off! Like I said, early days, Freddie has gone out for the second time, Lulu is still confined upstairs (her choice) the only down side is that at the minute they're virtually nocturnal, which would be fine if they weren't virtually living in my bedroom! BeckyBoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
