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I once took my to-do lists and careful planners and in a fit of 'I'm so fed up with this all', just tore it into as many pieces as I could, and it was one of the best things I've ever done... I've lived list-free since, except at Xmas, cause I worry I might forget something or someone at such a busy time... the rest of the time I don't worry about it...

Welcome to the liberated anti-list brigade :wink:

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the thing is I was trying to get all the little jobs around the house and garden done so it was all pretty and finished :D :D

 

Then I could treat myself to the one thing I've been wanting to do for 12 years - take a month off and enjoy my house and garden, spend some time listening to music, playing my piano, read all these books people keep telling me are great, watch the wildlife in the garden, cook lovely recipes and chat to my chooks :D :D :D :DS

 

*sighs dreamily that one day i might achieve this*

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Then I could treat myself to the one thing I've been wanting to do for 12 years - take a month off and enjoy my house and garden, spend some time listening to music, playing my piano, read all these books people keep telling me are great, watch the wildlife in the garden, cook lovely recipes and chat to my chooks :D :D :D :DS

 

I think you should do this immediately, then you will feel relaxed and rejuvanated and maybe then make another list, or not, and tackle the

jobs that you think need doing. As long as the roof isn't leaking anything

else can wait surely :wink:

 

Tessa

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I am a great list-maker. I forget things all the time, and I get a sense of achievement when

(if! :roll: ) I've ticked things off (hands up if you always cheat by putting down a couple of items you've already done!)

 

However ... I used to make a list of jobs to do each weekend, and just feel demoralised that I didn't get through them all. I changed my approach, and now I make a list of 5 things (no more) that will improve my quality of life.

 

These can be random things like cleaning the oven, sorting out that drawer in the kitchen that is rammed full of odds-and-ends and never closes, or phoning someone I've been meaning to call for ages. It might include things like painting the kitchen, doing the filing etc, but if so, I break them down into achievable size chunks - paint one wall, sort out one pile of papers. It's much more motivating, and I almost always achieve it.

 

I reckon if you can't remember what was on the list, it didn't need doing that badly anyway :wink:

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(for 10 days only have 1 teenager - boy - so he'll be on WOW all the time :roll::roll: )

I've got one of them (well, 2 actually) :roll: . Just as well I do my forumming on the laptop, I never get on the PC :roll: . It'd be funny if yours & mine are talking to each on WOW while we're on here!

 

now that would be spooky :D :D

 

My daughter sometimes goes on WOW but she's much more of a MSN girl :D:D

 

Fortunately my son has to have his own laptop as he uses it for school (he has special needs) otherwise we would never get an look in :roll::roll:

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I regularly have a "to do" list on the go.............but I never, ever get to the end of it :roll: . By the time I've finished the original list I've added an extra 20 things to it. It must be quite liberating to be without a list for a few days, go on, relax and have a few days off, and I bet that you can remember all the important things on the shredded list, so you can start work on compiling a bigger, better list mark 2 when you're suitably refreshed and relaxed 8)

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