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By Joojoo, in The Nesting Box

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Couperwife Golden Egg

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hmmm :? your dad shouldnt be recieving poor treatment.

 

why dont you get a small notebook, and write down everything that is going on, and leave it in an obvious place when they come and see him - or you go to get a cup of tea.

 

it may make them think again.

 

or complain loudly at the nurses station.

 

if you make a fuss, they will probably sort it out.

 

on the other side of this, the nurses are possibly understaffed and struggling to cope (which doesnt help your dad :? )

 

either way

 

((((hugs))))

 

im glad dad is making improvements

 

cathy

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Jue, my dad didn't fare much better than yours :? mum would never let me say anything though as she was scared that if we complained, they wouldn't look after him properly (not that they were anyway :roll: )

 

I lost count of the times my dad's colostomy bag burst/leaked because "Ooops, word censored!"ody could be bothered to empty it.

 

It's heart breaking enough having a seriously ill parent without having to worry about whether they are being cared for properly. My heart goes out to you as, sadly, I know exactly what you're going through :(

 

 

sending you hugs and you know how to get hold of me if you need a chat xxxx

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freddie Chatty Chicken

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Big hugs to you, at a very difficult time; sorry, just picked this thread up.

re the poor care. I hate to say this, but when my mum was so ill, at 89, I practically moved into the hospital, and fed, changed, washed, administerd meds etc, as the staff were on the whole useless and arrogant with it. Mum was in no way able to fend for herself, so I did it. I had endless rows with them, but got the medication and care she needed in the end, but it was pretty awful. I even wrote statements of compl;ant and read them to the consultant whilst recording the whole thing on my mobile, to protect everyone's rights. That worked. I did tell them i was recording.

Mums time in hospital was unimaginable in its incompetance.

Please protect yr dad at this his time of vunerability.

Good luck

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chelsea SUPER CHICKEN!!!

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It's heart breaking enough having a seriously ill parent without having to worry about whether they are being cared for properly.

 

 

 

I quite agree.

 

It makes my blood boil to think patients are being treated like this :evil: How upsetting for you and it adds so much to the extra worry. I would definitely complain and as Freddie says - log everything if you can.

 

Sending lots of positive thoughts and wishes your way Jue. xxx

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Joojoo Chatty Chicken

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Yeah things have certainly been very far from right with his overall treatment :evil:

 

They've found that he's got a blood clot in his left leg so he's now on Warfarin. That's really upset the apple cart with him. He's not very happy at all. I don't know, it just seems to be one thing after another for him at the mo :sad: BUT he is still continuing to improve with the Diverticulitis which considering the prognosis last week I really didn't think would ever happen so that is fantastic news.

 

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Glad to hear things have improved with your Dad. I hope it continues to do so. I too have many complaints re my father's treatment in hospital about 5 years ago and additionally most of last year. Again he is so reluctant to complain. I really feel that his generation are taken advantage of as they hold the medical profession in such high esteem. Generally when I have complained on his behalf or attended clinics with him he seems to get a better level of attention . Especially when you take notes(which I do).

 

Tha sad thing is when my OS was very ill the NHS was truly fantastic ( once I got past my locum gp who semed to think I was mad - ironically I was proved very right in my self-diagnosis). The hospital staff were amazing and simply couldn't do enough. I do feel that it seems to be age related together with a determined approach to clear questioning and probing. I have never been very good at simply accepting statements, the scientist or whatever in me always wants a reasoned explanation.

 

Keeping my fingers crossed for youx

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Joojoo Chatty Chicken

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I thought you would all like to know my fab news.

 

Dad is coming home tomorrow :dance: :dance: :dance:

 

I honestly never thought he would do, after the prognosis 11 days ago, but he has kept fighting and fighting. I'm just over the moon. The old brain can't quite take it all in yet :lol:

 

Social Services are putting together a care package for him, which will involve someone popping in a couple of times a day and just as importantly he has agreed to have a pendant alarm, which he has always refused up til now.

 

I still can't believe it :clap::clap::dance::dance::dance::dance::dance::dance::clap::clap:

 

Thank you to everyone for their kind messages and pm's. You really are a fab bunch of people :clap:

 

Jue xx

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