poachedegg Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 (edited) I have posted a couple of times re Ruby our rescue dog, approx 10, whom we have had for nearly two years. She isn't getting any better, in fact much worse over the last few weeks, she has only a little appetite and has lost weight, her back legs keep giving way and has little mobility. She stays in her bed most of the day and doesn't even looked pleased to see us anymore. We rang the vets about 10 days ago, as we didn't want to keep taking her as she doesn't like going and I think at the moment would traumatise her to see if this was the end for her. The vet was very understanding and her suggestion was to make an extended appointment and to bring her in in her bed, then after she had checked her over, if it was the right thing to do, then she would put her to sleep. The appointment was made, however because of the weather conditions we cancelled.... but the new appointment is Tuesday morning. Having had the conversation with the vet has made things more real, but also given us and the children a little time to accept what I think is the inevitable. She has never been a lively dog, but she doesn't do anything 'doggy' anymore and it is really sad to watch her being so sad. ....so this may be our last weekend wih her. Edited January 22, 2010 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClaireG Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 I'm really really sorry to hear that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 How sad . She looks so sweet . I hope it isn't too traumatic when the time comes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellekatz Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 Thats sad - Love and hugs to you and the family and hope the appointment is not too traumatic for you. Make the most of the last weekend. At least you know it will be diginified and pain free at the end. {{{{hugs}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chelsea Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 My heart goes out to you Poor little Ruby, at least in the last 2 years she has been loved and cared for. I know it's upsetting and am sending you a big ((hug)) to you and Ruby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patricia W Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 We've been through this with our 15 year old GSD - and it's an agonising decision. I don't know if this is an option for you, but our vet came out to Calli at home as we thought it would be too stressful for her to take her there. In fact, a vet and a nurse came. They phoned as they left the surgery so we knew they were on the way. She lay on the rug in front of the fire with her teddy. They'd brought a dog bed with them so we put her in their afterwards and they took her away for us. It was as good as something like that can be. It was £117 but worth every penny. Whatever happens you'll be doing the right thing. Tricia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groovychook Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 I'm so sorry to hear about Ruby Thinking of you and sending lots of love xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coco Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 We went through this with our 13 year old GSD Meg. Its an awful descion to have to make but all we can do is what we think is best for them. I think we know when the time is right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lesley Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 Such a sad and difficult time - I'm sure she had two wonderful years with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Chick Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 I am so sorry A hard decision but you are doing whats best for Ruby ((Hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathybc Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 thinking of you, she is beautiful x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftyhunnypie Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 Oh she looks so cute & actually young in that photo. Your story has made me cry. Emma.x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poachedegg Posted January 16, 2010 Author Share Posted January 16, 2010 Thank you for lovely coments and thoughts. x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 I'm so sorry, I know its hard but at least you have time with her before. Sending you (((hugs))). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 My thoughts are with you for your appointment tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poachedegg Posted January 18, 2010 Author Share Posted January 18, 2010 Well, Ruby seems to have had a reprieve. After tempting her with anything and everything to eat for the last couple of weeks - the last day or so has started to work and inturn she seems to be wanting to make an effort....we're not out of the woods yet, however she actually had a little mooch around the downstairs today and her back legs seems to be holding up slightly more, so maybe, just maybe these are greenshooots of recovery ....and the important thing is we have cancelled the vets appointment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Good, I'll keep my fingers crossed that the recovery continues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 That's good news . I really hope she stays well . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groovychook Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Fingers crossed here too, for her continued improvement! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Great news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plum Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Bless her. Hope she gains strength. xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poachedegg Posted January 19, 2010 Author Share Posted January 19, 2010 Thanks guys - am not overly optimistic, however with the slight improvement, we had to give her a chance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chelsea Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Oh, thank goodness she's improving. Cherish every day as I know you will. Bracken sends lots of healing licks and woofs Ruby's way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poachedegg Posted January 19, 2010 Author Share Posted January 19, 2010 Oh, thank goodness she's improving. Cherish every day as I know you will. Bracken sends lots of healing licks and woofs Ruby's way. Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftyhunnypie Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Oh thank goodness! I've fell in love with her little cute face. Fingers crossed for a recovery. Emma.x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
