Prolapsed vent - am I getting it right?

[clucky1]

This is a bit of drivvle really BUT I am really angry as I have just found out that my hubby has been spying on my omlet chat when he is at work (he obviously hasn't got enough work on)

I posted a couple of days ago about my quest to add two beautiful buff orpingtons to my flock of six girlies.

My husband (whom somehow had remembered my user name and then looked for my postings - how sad and AMAZING that he has a memory)

looked up my postings and hey presto, he found out about the prospect of the increase in numbers.

I told him last night that our little darlings wouldn't have to be increased if it wasn't for the fact that he is flogging all our eggs to his work colleages and I am not getting a look in.

ANYWAY - If you are reading this hubby - I am OFF to buy myself some very exspensive perfume which I have had my eye on for a while !

***Excuses to all innocent viewers for my letting off steam and rambleings.

[Shirl]

Good for you. God forbid that my OH should read some of my postings

[bronze]

rumbled

Tell him (or he can read it himself) that as hes such an avid reader of the forum he obviously loves chickens so much you need to get some more just for him!

[Tina C]

 

At least it wasn't your boss - mine has been asking about eglus - hope he does not discover this forum

 

 

My OH said to me the other night that he sometimes feels there are three of us in this relationship - I did not have the heart to tell him, 'No, actually its you, me and 3,317 others.....'

[clucky1]

Goodness it will cost you alot in valentines cards !

Definitly don't tell the boss about the forum.

[Guest]

my DH has been reading my posts from day 1, I'm not too bothered I just wish he'd sign up for his own user name! He just likes to read the forum though rather than post

[chickenlass]

Oh no!!!!

Is no where sacred any more?

 

PS What perfume did you get?? I reckon he should dig deep and get you the body lotion and bath oil in it too.

[Guest]

Good for you. God forbid that my OH should read some of my postings

 

speaking of which, how did it go with that christmas present?

[CatsCube]

Yes I discovered the other day my OH has been on and read some of my posts too, as one of his co-workers was asking about Eglus.

 

Still like its said it means he is interested in your girls, so more reason to get more!!! Shame on him for exploiting your girls eggs though.

[Guest]

My DH occasionally visits, but really this is MY world and you are MY friends. I don't mind him reading the harsh truth because I don't keep secrets, but I'm glad he doesn't visit too often.

 

It was especially annoying when he kept reading out threads that i was trying to read myself!! He really needs to find a job!!

[clucky1]

Well I have just got my 6 little darling 'girlies' into their pen useing bribery of raisins and sunflower seeds. They seemed very cooperative today and they eyed me with a 'knowing look of support'.

I am off now to buy the perfume. For all of those you whom have a nose it is: Aqua di Palma/ 'Iris "Ooops, word censored!"le'

Oh Hell ! and Maybe lunch with champers as well! (hubby expect fishfingers and mash tonight - and that's if you are lucky) !

Bye !!

[Tessa the Duchess]

I would be seriously furious if my DH or anybody spied on me in any way whatsoever

 

No wonder the forum keeps on crashing from overuse, all those spying partners creeping around

 

Tessa

[The Dogmother]

Good for you!

 

I would be furious too, after all, he questioning his trust for you - if he wasn't, he'd have told you that he was logging on.

 

Phil isn't the slightest bit interesting in forums of any sort.

[clucky1]

I am really going now. But - at the end of every 'cloud there is a siver lining' - the SHOPS !

[Jules.]

I have shown my last manger my posts

 

Hello Alex ( & Chris!) if you're reading.

 

I do try to be mindful of what I write- I write nothing that I would not want my children to read.

[Paola]

Good for you. God forbid that my OH should read some of my postings

 

Ditto

[Tessa the Duchess]

I do try to be mindful of what I write- I write nothing that I would not want my children to read.

 

I think we are all fairly restrained in our postings bearing in mind that this is a family forum I don't want to get all serious here, in fact clucky1's post made me laugh when I first read it The fact is that some people turn to the NB to get advice on very personal problems, relationships, medical issues etc., whilst this is a bit risky as anybody can log on as a guest and read the postings, for a partner to do so in a sneaky way is just wrong, wrong

 

Tessa

[Laura & CTB]

I will sometimes "invite" CTB to have a look if there's something funny or cute photos - other than that he wouldnt dream of nosing. It's the same with his canoe forum - I wouldnt start being nosy there (but then from what he's shown me that looks very boring anyway )

[Guest]

I don't know why some people would think this is a big deal, I certainly wouldn't have any problems if my other half was spying on my conversations because I have nothing to hide!

 

You should be able to feel comfotable about being open, honest and talking to your loved ones about anything.

 

I don't talk about anything to anyone without feeling perfectly fine with my partner reading or finding out about it.

 

My partner is usually the first person I discuss thoughts, projects or anything with!

 

It's sad, but I trust no one and people in online forums get a very limited blurry glimpse into my little world because you just never know who's about!

[Egluntyne]

Him Indoors joined briefly but soon lost interest.

 

Change your user name and then he won't clock your posts.

[bronze]

I don't have anything to hide either but its the checking up on someone that I don't like. I regularly recount bits to dh or show him pictures I wouldnt even mind if he logged on but if I had found out he was checking up on me surreptitiously then I would be cross.

[Guest]

Welcome to the digital age...

 

You wouldn't have had these problems 20 years ago and it has been the cause of many a break up for some people...

 

The benefits of the internet far outweigh the drawbacks in my opinion.

 

But it gives members of the public and government agencies more opportunities to snoop undetected into perfectly law abiding peoples lives.

[xChicken04x]

Tut, tut, is all I can say

 

xx

[chickencam]

I don't think my hubby spies on me but the 2 older children have been known but they are both registered on here too. Lregely speaking this is my world and the rest of the family tease me about my addiction

[Egluntyne]

the family tease me about my addiction

 

Same here...but they spend all their time on Facebook.

 

At least this is educational!