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he's now got C difficile and is in an isolation ward. As if he doesn't have enough to cope with :roll:

 

It's just one thing after another and I'm scared he's never going to get out of that place!

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Sorry to read he is not too good again Poet...I too have been wondering how is was but not dared ask. Hopefully this will just be a short set back and he will improve again. He really sounds to be a remarkable man and I'm sure he isn't going to give up knowing how much support he has from his family. sending a hug for you. x

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apart from still being a bit disorientated, he seemed okay. I can tell by his eyes that he isn't totally with us but there are flashes of recognition. It's so sad because he was completelly compus mentus before he went into hospital :cry:

 

He's in an isolation ward so we have to don plastic gloves and aprons before we go in and wash our hands before and after. Hope they recycle all that plastic!

 

His left arm is maroon (almost black) from the wrist to the elbow and quite swollen. It was an awful shock when I spotted it and I was thinking thrombosis, gangerine, what the heck is it!!!??? Called the nurse and she said she 'thinks' :roll: it's from when he had his last blood transfusion. She said the blood can sometimes leak into the soft tissue making it swollen and bruised but she'll get the doctor to check it out tomorrow. I'll take a photo of it tomorrow and put it on here, it's terrible! :shock:

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Called the nurse and she said she 'thinks' :roll: it's from when he had his last blood transfusion. She said the blood can sometimes leak into the soft tissue making it swollen and bruised but she'll get the doctor to check it out tomorrow. :shock:

 

Sorry he seems to be having such a hard time at the moment :(

 

The nurse is probably right, after an infusion, particularly if the skin is friable there can be seepage into soft tissue, and even a little can leave horrendous bruising around the venflon site :(

 

Karen x

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So sorry to hear about this setback, Poet :( . If it's any comfort ( :? ) my dad had c. diff too and was put in a single room. He didn't seem bothered in the least by it and did get over it.

 

Your hospital sounds more hygiene conscious than his :? . We were just told to use soap and hot water (the hand gel wasn't enough apparently). I had to remind Mum every time we went - she didn't seem to get it :roll: .

 

Fingers crossed your Dad gets rid of it soon.

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Called the nurse and she said she 'thinks' :roll: it's from when he had his last blood transfusion. She said the blood can sometimes leak into the soft tissue making it swollen and bruised but she'll get the doctor to check it out tomorrow. :shock:

 

Sorry he seems to be having such a hard time at the moment :(

 

The nurse is probably right, after an infusion, particularly if the skin is friable there can be seepage into soft tissue, and even a little can leave horrendous bruising around the venflon site :(

 

Karen x

 

thanks Karen, that's reassuring.

 

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So sorry to hear about this setback, Poet :( . If it's any comfort ( :? ) my dad had c. diff too and was put in a single room. He didn't seem bothered in the least by it and did get over it.

 

Your hospital sounds more hygiene conscious than his :? . We were just told to use soap and hot water (the hand gel wasn't enough apparently). I had to remind Mum every time we went - she didn't seem to get it :roll: .

 

Fingers crossed your Dad gets rid of it soon.

 

yeah, we were told the handgel wasn't enough too.

 

thanks for the reassurance V. I've heard C Diff mentioned on TV but as usual, the media blow it out of all proportion and imply it's fatal! :shock: I s'pose it's like the flu, it can be dodgy for the really ill/elderly. Although my dad is both, he's pretty strong so, fingers x'd! :?

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Absolutely.

 

Blood vessels are friable at the best of times, and particularly so in the elderly and those who are in a weakened state after a prolonged illness, like your father, so it is quite common for a drip to "tissue".

 

In the olden days a soothing poultice would have been slapped on it, but they were found to be hazardous in other ways and their use discontinued.

 

They stank to high heaven anyway.

 

It sounds as if your father is receiving the best of care Poet.

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you should see it! His whole forearm (right the way round) is almost black and swollen, it was a real shock! :shock:

 

I s'pose you medical ladies have seen it all before but it made me panic. I just wish they'd forewarned us, it's not like we don't speak to them before we go in. We always say "how is he?" on the way in and they always say "fine"!

 

He's got terrible stomach pains at the moment, the nurse thinks it might be some sort of colic type 'thing'.

 

I just feel so sorry for him, he just keeps getting one thing after another.

 

p.s., what does 'friable' mean?

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In the olden days a soothing poultice would have been slapped on it, but they were found to be hazardous in other ways and their use discontinued.

 

They stank to high heaven anyway.

 

I must be weird because I used to volunteer to do all the kaolin poultices on my ward because they smelt so lovely! :roll:

 

It's flattering to know that I was nursing "in the olden days", Egluntine! :wink:

 

I can understand why it would look alarming to you, Poet, but it isn't uncommon I'm afraid. I do hope your Dad gets better soon. *hugs*

 

p.s "Friable" mean "easily crumbled, pulverized, or reduced to powder". In your Dad's case, the fragility of the blood vessel walls.

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Poet, I am so sorry to pick up this thread again and hear about your Dad. I had hoped to hear you were planning his homecoming and camping trip.

 

But there seems to be such a lot of really good nursing experience on here that I think we should open an Omlet hospital. :lol: Your Dad could be the first patient, I'm sure he would be better in no time.

 

.... but who would be matron?

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This is so embarrassing....I wasn't meaning Kaolin.....that does smell lovely.

 

I was meaning a cooling black concoction that we used to put on a gamgee pad (remember those?) and apply it to the "tissued" area. It worked, but smelt vile.

 

Trouble is, I can't remember for the life of me what it was called.

 

Him Indoors couldn' t recall either.

 

Old age and decrepitude is taking its toll. :?

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That's the fella! :)

 

Glyc and Ick.....It all comes flooding back to me now.

 

Came in a curiously old fashioned bottle...with a cork.

 

Very Florence Nightingale.

 

 

A bottle with a cork? :shock: - did you drink pop from a bottle with a marble in it as well? :wink:

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