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[chickenanne]

Oh, Mrs B, I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with all this rubbish. Keep going....I've no useful advice.

Remember that the children are entitled to recieve financial support from him, whether he thinks he can afford it or not.

[Looney]

You are a wonderful mother Mrs B and a wonderful person. As I've said before in a previous post, you must always do what you believe is right no matter how hard it is. You are clearly doing this, so I just wanted to send you some hugs to add to all the others!

 

Stay strong and for the moments when you don't feel strong remember there are lots of people around here to lean on. xxx

[Mutrix Farmers]

Really sorry to hear that it didn't work out for you. You gave him a chance and he blew it, his loss and through no fault of yours.

 

I have no advice to give as I have thankfully never been in the same situation. Do you have a best friend you can chat to, go for coffee with, give you a hug when you need it most? Don't keep your feelings bottled up thinking you have to be strong for the children, my best friend was invaluable when I was severely depressed a couple of years ago.

 

Big hug from me to you. xxxx

[fowlbird]

The last time I looked you had over 400 hits on your post and at least 10% had replied with really valuable, practical advice.

The other 90% (in my view) are 100% behind you but with nothing to add that can be any practical use apart from the cyberspace support.

Just know we're here for you.

 

Jackiex

I'm one of the 90% I'm afraid

I'm 100% behind you but finding it difficult to find words to express what I'm feeling for you

My daughter is in a similar position (3 years on and he's still being a jerk ) but through violence not alcohol...

 

from now on, to remind us both that I'm totally with you, I'll pop in daily and post a ((((hug)))) for you

[freddie]

hugs from here too

[Willow]

So sorry to hear about your problems. At least you will always know you did everything you possibly could.

 

Do be careful he doesn't move back in on any pretext. One of my friends has an ex she is divorcing who is sitting tight in the house even though he is the one at fault and she earns the money and she can do nothing to get rid of him. Is there anywhere welse he could look after the children so you could change the locks ?

[jackiepoppies]

Oh Fowlbird I didn't mean to make anyone feel ........I just wanted Mrs B to know that even if we don't post much, she is in our thoughts, prayers and cyber support and hugs.

 

Jackiex

[fowlbird]

I know you didn't, Jackie. Your post made realise that it's not enough just to read the thread and send positive vibes to mrs B...

 

((((mrs B))))

[Phonix]

The last time I looked you had over 400 hits on your post and at least 10% had replied with really valuable, practical advice.

The other 90% (in my view) are 100% behind you but with nothing to add that can be any practical use apart from the cyberspace support.

Just know we're here for you.

 

Jackiex

I'm one of the 90% I'm afraid

I'm 100% behind you but finding it difficult to find words to express what I'm feeling for you

My daughter is in a similar position (3 years on and he's still being a jerk ) but through violence not alcohol...

 

from now on, to remind us both that I'm totally with you, I'll pop in daily and post a ((((hug)))) for you

 

 

Yep me too!

x

[fowlbird]

((((mrs B))))

[jackiepoppies]

Todays dose of hugs coming your way Mrs B

 

Jackiex

[Plum]

From me too. xx

[Chickvic]

Thinking of you Mrs B.

[clootie]

You know what I think Mrs B - hugs coming atcha x

[missuscluck]

And one from me

Think you may end up with LOTS of hugs. We are all thinking of you.

[KimmyCustard]

I know exactly the pub you mean! Hugs to you and the kids, send us more venting if needed.

 

Kimmy

x

[jackiepoppies]

Wednesdays huge hugs enclosed!

 

Jackiex

[Mrs Webmuppet]

Hugs from sunny Suffolk on their way to you.

[fowlbird]

((((mrs B))))

[Chook n Boo Mum]

..and just for good measure some sunny , if slightly composty, {{hugs}} from West Sussex - I'm moving my compost heap with aid of 3 nearly-impaled chooks!!

 

Sha x

[sparkysmum]

Mrs B, I cannot add to what has been said before, but please be assured that you are in my thoughts and I hope that soon your tomorrows will be brighter and happier. Allisonxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Helly Welly]

Mrs B, i've only just caught up with this and i'm astounded at how amazing you are being. It sounds to me like you are doing everything right, your children clearly know where the blame lies. How are you getting on with sorting out extra benefits? Maybe a trip to the Citizens Advice bureau would help as they would know all the right contact numbers and what you may be entitled too. Basically, whoever you pay a bill too should be contacted to see if their are any discounts for lone parents and check the DWP website as there is quite clear info on there as to your entitlements.

 

And never forget, rant to us so you can be the strong, clear-headed woman we know you are in front of him.

[Olly]

Looks like you haven't had a hug yet today

 

((((( )))))

 

Hope it's going ok.

[A chickychickychick-ENN!!]

Also the Martin's Money Tips website may be useful. There are forums on there where people may be able to help with specific financial questions.

 

A xx

[fowlbird]

sorry the hugs are late today, mrs B... I've been out

((((mrs B))))

 

((((the little Bs))))