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[Leicester_H]

Hi

Don't know what I can say except good luck - we're all thinking about you and happy to offer any support we can.

 

H

[KimmyCustard]

Cor Mrs B, good on yer! Big decision (I've done it twice!) but your life now and your life another year from now will be soooo different.

 

The house next door to me is about to be rented, the owner has just renovated the ENTIRE house and garden (2 beds,one bath, 90 foot garden), PM me if youre interested! Wont be far away from school for the smallies either.

 

Sending you love and hugs and I'm happy to babysit your chooks if we become neighbours - it'll be a pleasure!

 

 

Kimmy

x

[Tessa the Duchess]

I am so sorry to hear your news, you always seem so upbeat and busy I can't imagine how you do it living with this nightmare. A good friend of mine had the same problem with her husband, and made the same decision as you, her life changed sooooo much for the better that she has never looked back. As others have said, come on here for a rant whenever you need to, and ask for help from friends and relatives. Good luck and lots of hugs from me too.

 

Tessa

[Paola]

I can only echo the kind words and support from the other members We are always here for you. Never worry about burdening us. Thinking of you ((((hug))))) x

[Joojoo]

Such a huge and very brave decision that you won't have taken lightly.

 

I think, after reading your post the other day, that you have made the right decision for you and your children's sanity. It will be very difficult over the coming months but I'm sure that you will get through it together as a family. Just think here starts the rest of your life... How about Wonder Woman as a new forum name You certainly sound like one to me :clap:

 

With all my very best wishes and lots of love to you and your beautiful family.

Jue xx

[Guest]

Big hugs.

 

I went through the same with my ex, mind you he didn't come home from the pub until closing time! Oh and he didn't think he had a problem. Oh and he earned about a quarter of what he spent on drink and would REPEATEDLY get loans from sharks or open credit cards and just take cash off them and NEVER pay them back (guess who paid them off again and again!).

 

I threw him out in the end - I still think he's just the same. Be strong and if you need to chat PM me!

[lisa33]

Good Luck Mrs B. A very brave & strong decision, which can only be for the best.

 

Thinking of you.

[freddie]

Strong strong lady. You're now on your way to peace in yourself.

We all admire you. It'll be tough and you will have wobbles. Dont be so sure there are no landlords who rent to people with pets. There are lots, quietly.

Keep up and strong. yell if we can do anything.

hugs to you all.

[Lesley]

Good luck Mrs.B - a really difficult decision to have to make but it sounds like the right decision for you and your little ones.

 

Positive thought coming from here as well .

[craftyhunnypie]

Luvvie we all make mistakes & we all have skeletons in the cupboard! You are so very very brave!

I also sensed something, especially round the time you normally have the Cher"Ooops, word censored!"yl girls.

 

Anyway, head up, chin high & have lots of cuddles & family time with your children!

 

 

Emma.x

[Janty]

I'm glad to hear you sounding more positive.

 

It's no secret that I went through a messy divorce from a controlling man. If you need to talk, just pm me.

 

Best wishes,

 

Jan

[Guest]

Oh Mrs B, I am so sorry that you have been through such an awful time. I'm not going to comment at all, but I wish you all the strength you need as you begin your NEW life.

 

Lots of love to you and your beautiful children.

 

xx

[Milly]

Good luck Mrs B. It's a hard decision to take but it sounds like the right one.

 

Milly

[GreenGirl]

You have an extraordinary inner strength, it sounds like you know this is the right decision for you and the children.

if you ever need to talk/wine/chocolate etc ...

 

Sending you positive vibes from me and the chooks

[Ms Marple]

I am slowly piecing this together. Such a different tone to your last post. Well done girl. Hugs from me too, not much else I can think of yet as there has already been so much good advice. Stay strongx

[Gamebird]

Oh my goodness Mrs B. These decisions are never made lightly and you must have been through so much to have finally seen the light.

 

I wish you all the luck in the world. I am in the next county to you so if you are ever in East Sussex (Blackboys) please call by. I know my Oliver would love to say hello to Delilah.

 

Big hugs xxx

[Chickvic]

Good luck and it sounds like you've thought long and hard and made the right decision for you. Big (((hugs))) for you and yours.

[Plum]

Sorry to hear your sad tale. You're girls are lucky to have a brave mum like you. All the best for the start of your new life.

XX

[TheGirlsMum]

Well done on being able to put your decision in writing so you can see that you have actually done it.

 

Keep strong.

 

What a lovely lady you are, all you are going through and you are able to give strength to others, you are my inspiration.

 

just editing to say that Mrs B knows why she is my inspiration nothing in regards to my OH, he's staying for ever.

[Couperwife]

oh heavens Mrs B (or Miss Behavin' - I like that one )

 

what a time you've been having

 

it sounds like you made the right decision and things will improve

 

((((((HUGS))))))

 

if you fancy moving up north, ill keep a look out

 

cathy

x

[Olly]

gosh what a difference to your last post - you sound very positive.

 

Big hugs, yes it will be hard - but not as hard as staying with him would be in the long term.

Wishing you strength, courage and confidence - you know you've done the right thing for you and the kids, and things will get better.

 

Come on here any time you want a chat, a rant, advice or sympathy - we're all behind you!

[Cate in NZ]

Not much to add Mrs B, except to wish you all the very best for the future, making that decision is a big one and takes a lot of strength and courage, but once it's made you can start to move forwards towards the future that you and your children deserve.

Good luck, and big {{{HUGS}}}

[clootie]

Mrs B, I had no computer yesterday and have only just tuned in to read your post. My heart goes out to you but I applaud your strength and positivity. The most difficult part is over, you will be more than able to cope with whatever comes your way now. For what it's worth, I hope he gets he help he needs. He hasn't always been this way and I'm sure underneath it all, he doesn't want to be.

 

A new beginning for you - lots of best wishes and hugs from me and mine. xx

[little chickadee]

Big hugs from me over here too. We have alcoholics in our family and I know how dreadful it can be. It sounds like you've made the right decision and I wish you all the best in the time ahead with your lovely children.

 

Take care - we're all behind you.

[chickencam]

Take care Mrs B our thoughts are with you and we will all be here for you whenever you need us (((hugs)))