Prolapsed vent - am I getting it right?

[Cate in NZ]

I think that all my responses have already been covered by all those wise Omleteers who have already commented. All I can add is that I'm so sorry that you've been disappointed, and dreadful news about your birth mother too...all on top of the problems that you've had with your Mum and Dad recently too....you really have had a tough time recently.

 

But your birth Dad has access to the letter if he ever changes his mind, he may have additional pressures now, his wife's opinion, worries about telling his children. I hope that with time he will reconsider, and if he ever does accept the letter or even make contact then you'll know that it's because he really wants to.

 

Big hugs to you.

[MedusA]

I hadn't seen this thread when it was originally posted, Vicki. I was so pleased for you.

 

Then I read the latest additions!

 

I can only hope, like others, that your birth father changes his mind after reflection, and reads your letter. I can appreciate that it must be a scary step for him too. What irony to find out about your birth mother's illness just when you are going through it all with your adoptive mother. How weird is that?

 

Thinking of you and sending *hugs*

[Gamebird]

You really are having a tough time at the moment.

 

I cannot believe he does not want to read your letter. It could be that he is under pressure from his wife. She could be the jealous type and can't cope with his past life coming into the present at the moment.

 

Given time he might change his mind. There is always hope.

[Paola]

I missed this thread back in Jan. I am so sorry to hear about your birth mother.

 

Personally it really saddens me that your birth father does not even want to read your letter I always think that honesty is the best policy and that his children will prob be a little upset/cross when they find that they have a sister they knew nothing about. My thoughts are with you ANH <<<<>>>>>

[Ain't Nobody Here]

Sad to have to tell you that my birth mum died this morning.

[Egluntyne]

Oh ANH I am so sorry.

[Olly]

Oh, so sorry to hear that.

[clootie]

How awful for you, I'm very sorry. You have such a load to bear at the moment. I'm thinking of you.

[Cooks]

so sorry

[Jules.]

Oh I'm so sorry ANH. Sending virtual hugs & real prayers for you x

[Guest]

vicki, have Pm'd you

 

xxxx

[Goosey Lucy]

ANH, I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm sending you my thoughts and best wishes x

[hillfamily]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news thinking of you and sending big hugs xxx

[KimmyCustard]

Oh ANH,I'm so sorry to hear your latest news. Thinking of you and sending you hugs.

 

Kimmy

x

[Paola]

Think of you at this very difficult time. Am sorry x

[Egg Lou]

My thoughts are with you ANH

[..lay a little egg for me]

Mine too

xx

[hils78]

Aw man - I'm really sorry that you're going through all this at the moment. Please use us lot to off load if you ever want a shoulder etc

Thinking of you,

 

Hxxx

[mrsallen08]

So sorry to hear you have more sad news. Love and best wishes, Heather

[dancing cloud]

Thinking of you

 

((Hugs))

[keyhole kate]

I am so very sad for your loss my

thoughts are with you

Hugs x

[bellekatz]

Really sorry you have had more sad news. My thoughts are with you

 

(((hugs)))

[Omletina Kyckling]

Oh ANH I'm so sorry to hear this. I missed the original thread on this and have only just caught up with it. I'm sending you lots of virtual hugs x

[Helen&Lee]

Sorry to hear your sad news ANH.

 

You really have been dealt quite a year - I hope you can continue to get through it with the strength and humour that has helped you through your difficulties so far.

 

My thoughts are with you.

 

((Virtual Hugs))

[Karen & co.]

I'm so sorry to hear your news Sending lots of hugs.

 

Karen x