Scramble Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Me and first boyfriend are finito I was kind of mutual that it just didn't seem to be working out... We've agreed to be friends.. i think According to my friend his msn (I don't have it) used to say I rocked now it only says his name I don't know how to feel, we were nice and polite to each other, want to stay friends but, who knows? I guess I feel quite sad about it and today was our 6 month-anniversary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Sorry to hear that, Jessie, but it's good that you can still be friends . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egluntyne Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Chin up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emily95 Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 (edited) Sorry to hear that Jessie. Its good you can still be friends though Try to stay positive. Emily xxx ((hug)) Edited May 20, 2009 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janty Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 At least it was mutual. Keep smiling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looney Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Oh, poor you You're bound to feel a bit odd, uncertain etc until the reality really sinks in. BUT as you have said it was mutual so hopefully you will feel more positive soon. Sending you big (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickvic Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Sending you some (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Chick Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Its always hard when a romance ends, but I honestly believe that everything happens for a reason. Only time will tell what that is. Big hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clootie Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 6 months already? I remember you were telling us it had only just begun! Time is flying. It's just not meant to be missus but I'm sure you will stay friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkysmum Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Oh Jessie, it's always hard when a romance comes to an end, even if it was mutual. Although it's easy for me to say, stay bright & happy & look forward. Chill out with your mates. Oh & remember friends are like bras, they support you when you're down Allisonx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lewis Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 6 months already? I remember you were telling us it had only just begun! Time is flying. Any me Good job theres no awkwardness (wee not too much ) and you're still friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olly Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Sorry - it's never easy, but it sounds as if you reached a conclusion without falling out over it (in my experience 'mutual' never means 'we both wanted this equally'). Better to part friends than carry on together and part as enemies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
susanbb Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Sorry to hear your news Jessie. Thinking of you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I dont know how old you are but its an old cliche - plenty more fish in the sea Plenty of time to get out the rod and hook one. Have fun with your friends and enjoy life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Treat yourself this weekend to something that you enjoy but haven't done for a while because he wasn't so keen. That way you will feel better and give yourself a treat. My ED has a very on off boyfriend and I find the ups and downs really hard never mind her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Oh, you poor love! First romance is a powerful thing & you will never forget him But you are obviously destined for greater things I am glad you will still be friends. My eldest is 16 & has had her boyfriend for nearly a year now, & I know that when it ends (when,not if,they are only kids still), she will miss his friendship more than the romance aspect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGirlsMum Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 So sorry, take care of yourself, do something for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I am glad you will still be friends. My eldest is 16 & has had her boyfriend for nearly a year now, & I know that when it ends (when,not if,they are only kids still), she will miss his friendship more than the romance aspect. It may not my Hubby and I have been together since I was 16 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Really?, WOW! Well, we shall see won't we? He is a lovely boy, so no issues there,but I hope she lives her life to the full before settling down - just like Scrambled will Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Hugs to Scrambled. There's some wise advice on this thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Oh I'm sorry, I'm sending ((((hugs)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missuscluck Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Awww. Big hugs from me too. Hope you feel better about it all soon. As has already been said, these things happen for a reason. Chin up.xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Ok to cheer Scramble up how about some tales of 1st BF and what you remember about them. Mine was a guy called Mick who was 21 to my 14 - it was very innocent ( you didnt know my mum - she was fierce ) and we belonged to the Baptist yuff club in a big village in leicestershire. He hadn't mastered the art of the french kiss ( a bit new in late 1970's) and it was like kissing a very licky dog he was a nice guy, and he dumped me for a friend. So Scramble in 20 yrs you'll be on this forum comforting another poor lass whose heart is broken surrounded by OH kids chucks and animals. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Chick Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Well I was tempted to post this earlier, but thought I might have got beaten down in flames. My first boyfriend worked at a Battery Chicken Farm , I didn't know anything about battery chickens until I met him. He only did it for extra pocket money (he was 15 and I was 14). He dumped me for an older woman, she was 16!!! It broke my heart, but at least I learned that I would never buy battery eggs! Even now after 21 years, I still think about him occasionally and wonder what he's up to. (Not that I would swap my OH for all the men in the world ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alis girls Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 No same here - have kissed too many frogs and now have a prince. AAah. hang on in there Scamble theres a guy out there with your name on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
