The Dogmother Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 He's hardly likely to say 'Yes Mum I don't like him and I am making his life a misery by bullying him at every oportunity.... oh, and what's for tea?" I thought this - she may just have answered that to save face and in reality given him a good telling off. I do hope that you get this sorted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenanne Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 To me "no issues" means he doesn't dislike your son. So, he jsut bullies him becuase he has no strong feelings wither way... nice. Report it all to the school, and see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted July 29, 2009 Share Posted July 29, 2009 Document everything. You did the right thing with the letter to the mother. If they're bad sorts, you've no chance, but you've done the right thing. It has to be headmaster next, and then police as a last resort. You're handling this very well. Love to you and your son. xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scramble Posted July 29, 2009 Share Posted July 29, 2009 Really sorry to hear about this Afraid I don't know what to say, just: ((hugs)) x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seagazer Posted July 29, 2009 Share Posted July 29, 2009 Sorry just caught up with this. I hope you manage to get the bully to stop. Definitely report it to the school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clootie Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 Well I have an appointment on Friday to see the Headmaster about this. If I had another option available to me, I would remove DS from school but as next year is his GCSE year, my hands are tied. Apparently the oik who is causing the problem is saying that DS has been winding him up to get a reaction and is now involving me in it all. This info is coming from other boys keen to open up the wounds and rub salt in them it seems. They like to light the blue touchpaper and stand well back to watch the show. They all need a cuff round the ear and I would like to volunteer to do the honours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Chick Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Hope the meeting goes well on Friday Cloots. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Egluntyne Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 All the best Clootie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jlo Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good Luck with the meeting! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lewis Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck and hope it sorts something out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ygerna Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck with friday. (we need a 'hug' smilie') Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clootie Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck with friday. (we need a 'hug' smilie') Or a Kalashnikov smiley just in case I bump into pond life boy. Oh no, see what he's done? He's bringing out my better side now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChirpyChirpyCheepCheep Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Hello Clootie Just wanted to send positive vibes for Friday. . . Yeah. . . It is me. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dogmother Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck for Friday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickvic Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy-Mama Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 hope all goes well on Friday and the bullying stops Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Couperwife Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 I would be inclined to go in with as much evidence as you can to prove that your son is innocent in all of this. its rubbish being bullied I hope the meeting with the head is positive cathy x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck, Clootie . I really hope it gets sorted out . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rona Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck with friday. (we need a 'hug' smilie') Or a Kalashnikov smiley just in case I bump into pond life boy. Oh no, see what he's done? He's bringing out my better side now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clootie Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 Good luck with friday. (we need a 'hug' smilie') Or a Kalashnikov smiley just in case I bump into pond life boy. Oh no, see what he's done? He's bringing out my better side now Oh goody, one for each hand !! Thanks Rona x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cooks Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 good luck Friday matey. Stay calm and say your piece, just a noe have you got a copy of their bullying policy??? every school should have one? you can go armed with that. I know I can download a copy of my sons from his schools website?? so maybe you can too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valkyrie Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Go get 'em Cloots - and just to remind you, pond life has it's own pecking order - there will be a bigger fish to eat up that bully one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyhole kate Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Keep your Napper hen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A chickychickychick-ENN!! Posted August 29, 2009 Share Posted August 29, 2009 Any joy Clootie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valkyrie Posted August 29, 2009 Share Posted August 29, 2009 Cloots we're desperate to find out how you got on yesterday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
