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Highs & Lows of 2010

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Here are mine - what are yours?

 

Highs:

Some brilliant TV: Sherlock,An Idiot Abroad,Wonders of the Solar System & Downton Abbey.

Getting my Kindle was a real high point - I would not be without it now.

My new HTC Desire phone too.

Discovering Biffy Clyro,Elbow and lots of other new (to me) bands

My daughter learning to drive

Getting a job after 18 years,then changing it after 6 weeks to a job I actually like

Serving Orlando Bloom on first week of said new job & congratulating him on his engagement!

Partner discount 8)

Deregistering our business from VAT...such a relief!

Our holiday at Centerparcs

The brilliant 14 inches of snow we had right back in January

Discovering,thanks to a book group member,the brilliant Shardlake books by CJ Sansom

My new greenhouse,& my subsequent crop of tomatoes

The new Harry Potter movie,Avatar,Iron Man2,Alice in Wonderland,Percy Jackson & the Lightning Thief

Getting my Tragus piercing,after several false starts

New hens

My wonderful cat,Chilli

 

Lows:

My Dads illness

My daughters disappointment at her AS results,even though I thought they were great

Losing my lovely nephew,who was only 26

Not being able to diet.At all.

My youngest daughters insistence that she be 'different' & rebellious

One particular person at work who I do not trust

The Time Travellers Wife, Eat Pray Love & other rubbish movie adaptations

Tax bills

Still not getting the living room re painted,despite a million different paint swatches on the walls

Ditto not getting my patio re done or my planned back porch built...............still,maybe next year?

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Selected highs

 

Changing my job

Spending loads of time with my chicken friends

Had 9 new chicken additions in 2010

The biggest one - the birth of my gorgeous baby nephew

 

Selected lows

 

Nursing my Grandfather through lung cancer and losing him in July :cry:

Lost 3 chickens this year (2 old age, one with Mareks)

 

I look forward to 2011 with optimism, lots to look forward too, seeing my nephew develop, hopefully doing some hatching, and spending more time with chicken friends, starting with the Welsh National next weekend :dance:

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Selected highs and lows

 

High points: celebrating my 50th birthday, I had several parties including a trip to Paris with nine friends

A weekend at Ragdale with my best friend

Successfully completing a new project at work

Passing my Grade V Music Theory

Lots of great family occasions including my nephew's wedding in June and celebrating the birth of a new great-nephew

Adding four new hens to my flock

Seeing my bees survive the winter!

 

Low points: discovering someone I respected and trusted had been charged with some serious criminal offences, of which he was subsequently convicted.

Losing two hens, including one of the new ones :( (and she was the blue egg-layer, too)

My sister-in-law being rushed into hospital two days ago with a DVT

Developing cellulitis after a bee-sting

 

On the whole it's been a good year though, the highs outweigh the lows and I am sure that 2011 will hold lots more good things - friends and family already have dates in the diary. I wish all of you a happy and healthy New Year.

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Overall we've had a good 2010, but then I always say that as I think we have good PMA (Positive Mental Attitude :D ), however a big big low was our decision to come out of Fostering because of the ineptness of so called professionals who I am surprised that some can sleep at night!

 

Still it's done now and we now have the facility to go off and do whatever we want, when we want without having to ask permission, so every cloud and all that............

 

Our dog Ruby died at the begining of the year which was really sad, however we now have Milly, whilst is not a replacement for her, certainly fills a gap.

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Hm,

Highs:

Lots of camping trips and 3 new tents :oops:

Getting my ipod and being able to do away with my filofax which I could never fit into my bag! :lol:

ES doing well at college, gaining automatic entry onto part 3 of his course without having to be interviewed or tested and passing both parts of his driving test first time.

Excellent feedback from 2 younger sons teachers.

Fabulous short break in October - just me and OH, for some catch up time, and doing a 'proper' hike for the first time in years.

Having my Dad and Step Mum so much nearer and being able to see them much more.

Finding out I have high blood pressure, getting it treated and feeling so much better as a result!

Being offered more work than I needed (always a bonus when self employed!)

Spaniels and chickens (just not together! :anxious: ) :lol:

 

Lows

Not being able to spend any time on the allotment

Ill health - tiredness from anaemia, then having much needed surgery postponed because of above high blood pressure!

Christmas :( OH was called to his Mums on Christmas Eve and she passed away on Boxing Day, so the boys and I were alone for christmas and unable to be with OH when he needed us. :cry:

 

So a very sad end to the year for us, but it was still a very good year - we have such a lot to be thankful for, and hopefully the low points will be resolved very early on in 2011! 8)8)

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Highs :D

 

ES getting into Uni after a worrying couple of years

YS being picked to go on a trip to Borneo with his school next year

Getting my front garden ripped out, redesigned and replanted

Our cycling holiday in the Netherlands

OH finding that his job was safe (for the time being)

The snow! I loved it despite the disruption :oops:

 

Lows :(

 

A good friend's OH having a massive stroke which has left him almost totally and probably permanently disabled at 45

Losing our lovely hamster, Oscar and 2 of my feathery girls

Gaining back all the weight I lost earlier this year

A second year estranged from my mother. I've now given up trying to convince her that I'm not the evil witch she seems to think I am

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It's been an emotional year because of our eldest son. Basically it started off low because he was in Afghanistan & then we had a massive high when he came home safely.

Other highs are one son becoming a fully fledged policeman, my daughter getting her degree & full time work in a lovely place & my other boy passing his HGV course, when he gets finally settled, I'll be satisfied.

Other highs were getting out on the motorbike with my husband & going to Heidelberg Christmas Market.

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Highs

A fabulous weekend away with OH in Salisbury which included seeing the Ukelele Orchestra of Great Britain for the first (but hopefully not the last time) and some very picturesque snow and a trip to Pewsey on the way home after very many years

A fabulous four day break in London with my Bestest Ever Friend in the whole world, my god-daughter and my DD including a visit to the Absolut Ice Bar which was an Absolut Hoot

A fabulous week's break in Pembrokeshire with my OH and SUNSHINE every day even though it was October

Being reunited with my Dad's brother and sister and my cousins after too long a break and finding out that one of them has been working on our Family Tree and they have some photos!

Watching Wild Target for the delicious Mr Bill Nighy, and Another Year, just because I enjoyed it soo much

Reading The Falls by Joyce Carol Oates, and We are all made of Glue by Marina Lewycka? (sp)

Being so proud of my two children, my DS for all his hard work on his A levels and his determination to do well in spite of Dyslexia, my DD for taking on the challenge of a year being taught Geography in French at Uni in France

Re-discovering my love of Knitting ,and the wonderful Attic 24's blog (thanks for pointing me in that direction Egluntyne)

Spending time on the Forum with all you wonderful people

Lows

Losing our lovely Betty dog in June

Losing my lovely Dad in September

 

looking forward to 2011, and sending best wishes for a good one to everyonexxx

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Highs

My lovely hubby still being lovely after 12 years together (not used to this from a husband)

Son doing well at school despite his problems

Still being really happy with my girls and celebrating my third Henniversary

Still loving my teaching

Going to see War of the Worlds at the O2 arena

Getting tickets for front of stage to see Kylie at the O2 arena

Getting tickets to see the great, wonderful, awesome Erasure at Thetford forest - I've always loved them

 

Lows

Losing so many girls over the past two months and now one of my old hybrids looks very weary and slow :(

Stuck up brats from son's school being evil to him

Recently discovering that I have some sort of gall bladder problem and being in agony over Christmas :( However, the doctor got my scans, etc. organised really quickly and I just have to have second blood tests then go back for the results.

Becoming grumpy in my old age - I'm annoying myself lately :oops:

Waiting to hear if I'm going to be made redundant as scummy SCC are closing middle schools :(

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Highs

Getting my first girls & finding out how wonderfully addictive henonism can be

The wonderful surprise party my children organised for my 50th - seeing so many lovely friends together

My DD finishing her MA with a distinction

Officiating at the wedding of a dear friend and seeing her so happy with her love

Some really special moments at my job as a vicar

Meeting some online friends irl and discovering that they are even nicer than I had thought

 

Lows

Continuing struggles with marriage (you'd think after 25 years we might have got the hang of it)

Losing our lovely old Australian terrier, Mufti, to diabetes and our 3 legged ginger cat, Teddy, to a brain tumour just a month apart

#2S's disappointment at his A2 results (though the way his brother & sister rallied round to help him through it counts as one of the major highs - as does his happy settling at Lancaster Uni, thanks to clearing)

Watching my honorary mum disappear gradually into Alzheimers

Work related struggles, including the way that very few of my regulars thought it was worth turning out for church in the snow, even at Christmas - though that was balanced by lots of lovely people who don't normally come who appeared anyway

 

A mixed year. Learning to live without the kids in term time is going to continue to be hard - and now DD has moved on into the world of work there are whole new levels of letting to to cope with.

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Highs

Becoming grumpy in my old age - I'm annoying myself lately :oops: (

 

Me too - just can't seem to help myself somedays :(

 

My Highs

 

My lovely DD2 getting engaged in April and married in September

Finishing my first patchwork quilt

Long weekend away at Festival of Quilts

Getting our WIR

Starting the Fostering process.

 

My Lows

 

FiL dying suddenly in January from Aortic Dissection

My Bro having several heart operations

Turning 50 (the age my dad died)

Yo-Yo Weight - currently at an all time high

Having a re-structure at work, having to reapply for my own job and not getting it, instead being given a lower grade post.

Developing Frozen Shoulder – treatment on-going.

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2010 seems to have travelled down the rails of time at an alarming rate.

Highs;

were in Jan at the birth of a new grandchild,

My YD passing her driving test and getting a little car....she gets all 3 car seats in,so is happy.Her hard fought for divorce was finally done with...

We,me and DDs' and all 6 grandchildren got away camping a few times together,despite the rain.

ED getting her job after 10yrs as stay at home mum..very proud of her.

OH got home 3x over the year and is safe, well done RCS

Mortgage was paid off YES ! :dance:

25 yrs anniversary ( second time around for both of us ) :clap::clap:

Got a cube,WIR and Chickens :dance::dance::dance:

Lows,

My little dog had pyometra and was very ill for a while,had both the girls spade.

Had a long year with many arthritic flares, now on more drugs and have splints for hands, night and day, as well as feet. Also impliments to help in the house so i can cook etc..

Mum had pre cancer bowel surgery and it took her a long while to get over it , she now has angina.

My sis had rheumatic fever as a child was dx with leaking mitral valve so she is now on drugs.

My YB fell through a roof and was out of action for months, surgery to rebuild shoulder.

YSis is getting divorced.

Ex H mother died in Nov...so sad for my DDs' christmas was a bit subdued.

..................and many minor events through the year , good and bad.......

2011 i pray is a much kinder year for all of us....HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE....xxxxx

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As most of you know I've had a pretty eventful year, but my most major low could turn out to be a high in the long term....

 

soooo

Lows...

Losing 3 of my girlies

Arthritis not good, certainly worse rather than better

Finding out the one friend who I would have lived and died for wasn't so much of a friend

The biggy, husband deciding he no longer wanted me, divorcing me and me finding myself 42 and alone and having to move into a house on my own etc etc.

Then lots of minor lows, like leaking pipes, blocked loos, sick boilers etc. in my house and struggling to cope with it all!

 

Highs

Finding I CAN survive on my own and that being alone isn't as scary as it first seemed (although I still have my wobbles!) and then being inundated by ex-hubby saying he misses me and wants me back (erm I don't think so, too little, far too late!!)

Realising I'm blessed with the best friends in the world

 

2011 HAS to be so much better than 2010, roll on the New Year!!

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The two biggest highs

Seeing Adam settled into a secondary school he loves and getting the help and support he needs.

Having my 14yr old son back living with me after 10yrs.

 

The biggest low

My recent hospital stay and current health.

 

Here's hoping 2011 is a good one for us all :D

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highs:

 

Highlight was getting my daughter back after 6mths in Oz just in time for my birthday in Jan

being married 25yrs with no major problems :D:D and

going to New York to celebrate

couple of good weekends away in our tent with friends

brilliant Xmas day with all my kids here :D

discovering cake making again though not sure hubby agrees after getting on the scales today :lol:

my mum still being totally compus mentis at 82

the marriage of my neice and the birth of her daughter last week

son splitting up with his gf, she didn't work and didn't help an already lazy son

son since then deciding he wants to be a fireman as he wants to help people :cry::)

Daughter finding a wonderful bf just before Xmas

 

high and low

above daughter getting dumped by text from her bf of 6 years , since found out he cheated on her during that time so well rid now we think!!

 

lows

job worries for me and hubby

hubby losing his chance of redundancy (that he wanted) because of his boss's bolls up

daughter having a few dodgy relationships post break up

putting weight back on , yo-yo

having a major breakout over whole body of ezcema, for first time ever at 46 :roll: was starting get me really depressed until i got the right cream

 

 

when you make a list its good to see i had to think more for the lows, brings it into prospective!!

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Highs

My OH and 2 boys

my chucks of course

Friends Oh being in remission from Prostate cancer at only 51

 

lows

Fallout with a so called friend over kids

Friends OH cancer

Another friends mums death - a lovely lady

my job

depression

 

But we have to try and be positive

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