Jules. Posted February 28, 2016 Share Posted February 28, 2016 That is so lovely & special what you have done, many congratulations x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ain't Nobody Here Posted February 28, 2016 Share Posted February 28, 2016 What a lovely photo - your outfit is gorgeous! - you both look so happy, it brought a tear to my eye . I'm glad your special day went well, your dad must have loved it. I hope you've got photos of your kids at the moment the penny dropped what was actually happening ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandmashazzie Posted February 28, 2016 Share Posted February 28, 2016 Another one who had been thinking of you. So pleased you had the day you wanted.Eva Cassidy. . lovely l can just imagine you all. Many many best wishes for the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gavclojak Posted February 28, 2016 Author Share Posted February 28, 2016 Oh my word! I am truly humbled by all your kind words and congratulations. It's funny, we have been together for over 30 Years but I do feel different somehow. I can't work out why but I just do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clucker1 Posted February 28, 2016 Share Posted February 28, 2016 Ah and wow, I'm so pleased you said that, I felt different too after marrying....it's very weird. Congratulations again X Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gavclojak Posted February 29, 2016 Author Share Posted February 29, 2016 Ah and wow, I'm so pleased you said that, I felt different too after marrying....it's very weird. Congratulations again X Thank you. Yes I have always said "it won't make any difference" " I won't feel different" etc but somehow, somewhere inside I just do. I knew I loved him deeply and we have shared some amazingly good times, babies etc and some hideous time illness etc but seeing him feed, care and love my dad has made me love him on a whole new level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soapdragon Posted February 29, 2016 Share Posted February 29, 2016 Ah and wow, I'm so pleased you said that, I felt different too after marrying....it's very weird. Congratulations again X Thank you. Yes I have always said "it won't make any difference" " I won't feel different" etc but somehow, somewhere inside I just do. I knew I loved him deeply and we have shared some amazingly good times, babies etc and some hideous time illness etc but seeing him feed, care and love my dad has made me love him on a whole new level. OMG, how special is that? That made me cry. You are one lucky lady (but then I guess you know that already ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted February 29, 2016 Share Posted February 29, 2016 I felt the same way when we were caring for my Grandad. My OH can be a contrary soul and hard to live with at times, but the way he cared for my Grandad made me see him with fresh eyes. Wishing you many more happy years together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkysmum Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 Hi Gavcloak! Well I must have been living on Mars for the past week cos I have missed all of this beautiful thread. I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's illness, he is so young. But oh my goodness what an amazing daughter and son in law your Dad has! You will have made your Dad so happy to see you marry your partner, a wedding everyone will remember for ever. You look truly sensational as does your lovely man! A match made in heaven I would think. I know that you will have tough times ahead but I wish many blessings on all of you! Wishing you happy, happy days to come. Love from us all in the Sparkysmum family. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gavclojak Posted March 10, 2016 Author Share Posted March 10, 2016 As promised:) sorry to bore you to death! ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olly Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Not boring at all - your dad looks so happy, and so do you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groovychook Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Ahh, lovely, lovely photo's I love this thread, it's so heart warming. Many congratulations again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soapdragon Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Thank you SO much for sharing such wonderful pictures! It looks so lovely and what a fantastic touch to have you all sitting round the celebrant like that rather than 'traditional' rows! The candles all looked very elegant too and the occasion came across as extremely dignified yet relaxed!!! Just perfect! PS Beautiful outfit too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickencam Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Lovely pictures Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valkyrie Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Absolutely blooming brilliant. Love the photos and just look at your dad beaming from ear to ear! Thank you. xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luvachicken Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Just lovely Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dogmother Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 You look lovely, and it is clearly such a happy moment - one to treasure for all times . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gavclojak Posted March 10, 2016 Author Share Posted March 10, 2016 In actually in tear's reading all your lovely kind messages, it's amazing isn't it that people are so genuinely kind and I know your messages are heartfelt. Dad isn't doing too well at the moment, he had a few good days when he first started the ketamine but he had taken a step back. The pain he had been in had been unbearable at times. He actually said yesterday he had enough of the pain...He is so incredibly brave and even through his pain he is polite and a true gentleman...I am in awe of him and treasure every second with him but to be honest I always have. He came into my life when I was a right stroppy, surly little 11 year old who thought she knew it all...I adore him x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groovychook Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 I am in awe of him and treasure every second with him but to be honest I always have. He came into my life when I was a right stroppy, surly little 11 year old who thought she knew it all...I adore him x I'm sure he absolutely adores you too. Hope you both manage to treasure the time you have left. Sending hugs xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clucker1 Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 I'm sorry about your Dad.....Your photos are lovely lovely lovely. Thank you so much for posting them, they are all gorgeous and your Dad looks so very happy. You look lovely lovely too. It's so lovely to read about. Lovely lovely xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitchHazel Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Oh, photos are lovely., they brought a tear or two to my eyes. I always cry at weddings, but this is the first time I've cried over wedding photos of someone I don't really know! Your Dad looks so happy, your dress is perfect. Congratulations again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizinsa Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 What wonderful photos and memories to treasure forever. As others have said, I love how everyone sat in a round, never seen weddings like that but it seems such an obvious idea that everyone is part of your special union. You looked gorgeous, can't believe you arranged it in a few days and kept it a secret! Sorry to hear your dad isn't doing so well, he looked overjoyed in your wedding pictures. Sending love and positive thoughts from across the Mediterranean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purplemaniacs Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Thank you for sharing your lovely photos. We are not bored at all but privileged to share in your special moment. Sorry to hear your Dad is not doing so well. I am sure having you near is a comfort to him. Thinking of you both! Chrissie xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandmashazzie Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 Really lovely,how is your dad keeping. I am sure that was so precious for him to share your special day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeramaSilly Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 Have just logged in and seen this thread and am soooo touched! You look beautiful in your dress, you both look so in love, your dad looks as proud as punch!! What a beautiful informal wedding and I love the pizza idea! So sorry about your dad but what a lovely experience for him to be part of your wedding. Lots of hugs and kisses to you all Sophie x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
