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[Reikiranf]

I've had enough of 2010 and I'm already looking forward to 2011! My Dad died very unexpectedly on January 5th, so my brother and I have been looking after our Mum 24 hours a day since then as Mum's disabled due to severe rheumatoid & osteo arthritis, she also has diabetes, it's not been easy as she lives 50 miles away from us, thankfully I have the best DH in the world who has been wonderful & holding the fort at home.

 

Then on Monday my brother couldn't get mum to eat or drink so he called an ambulance, Mum was taken into the same hospital that I honestly believe killed my Dad with their neglect , and she died on Thursday So as with Dad we've got to wait for a post mortem & feel we are in limbo, mum was always a fighter and nearly died last year but managed to come out of intensive care, but this time I think with Dad gone and the loss of my brother 9 years ago I think she lost the will to live, I'm glad that they are back together but can't believe I've lost both my Mum and Dad in 7 weeks and feel like my heart is breaking.

 

Sorry for moaning but I feel like my world has ended as I was the baby of the family in every sense of the word & the only girl so I was very close to my parents.

 

Amanda

[Sheilaz]

You poor, poor lovely, I'm so sorry. In my book, the new year starts on March 1st, so don't write off the whole of 2010.

But Jan & Feb have been devastating, my heart goes out to you.

 

Be kind to yourself, and remember how much you were and are loved, it's a 2 way thing, that's why it hurts so much. The last few weeks have been terrible, it will take a while to feel alive again, but one day the happy memories will take over.

 

Wishing you all the strength you need to cope, it's early days, so just manage one at a time, your parents would be very proud of you. Sending love. xx

[Ain't Nobody Here]

That is just awful and so sad. I'm so sorry.

 

Don't ever apologise for "moaning", you've been through a dreadful ordeal . I hope you find the strength to get through this awful time.

[Joojoo]

I'm so very very sorry hunni I'm not at all surprised you're feeling the way you are. I know how the loss of my Dad and then Ashley six months later has affected me.

 

Unfortunately, I haven't got any words of wisdom to offer you, other than to say that I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of love & hugs

 

Take care of yourself xxxx

[Chickvic]

Sending you some (((hugs))) and thinking of you.

[Charlottechicken]

So very sorry to read this.

 

It's too soon to do anything but grieve for your mum and dad, take your time to get through this, and look after yourself.

 

xxx

[Groovychook]

Oh I'm so sorry.

 

What an awful time you're having

Thinking of you and sending lots of love.

xx

[Cinnamon]

So sorry - how awful for you.

I don't know what else I can say,apart from keep strong

[Egluntyne]

Deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry to read this.

XX

[henriette]

What a terrible time you have had and how very sad to lose both Mum and Dad so near to each other. The only thing I can say is that I never really feel my Mum and Dad are gone - they always still seem to be here with me.

I sincerely hope that the rest of the year gets better for youand you manage to find the stregnth to get through this awful time .

Lots of kind thoughts xx

[ubereglu]

That's so sad. Keep strong and think of the good times and you'll pull through it and be ok in the end, get as much support as you can from the people around you.

 

It sounds really tough.

 

((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

[miffy]

so sorry to hear your new, its hard to loose both parents in a short space of time, I know. They are always with you in your heart, just gone to another room....

((hugs))

[Ness3103]

i'm so sorry to hear about your mum and dad. sending you a huge hug xx

[Daphne]

I can't imagine anything worse. You poor thing. I am very sorry indeed. We may not always be able to help but we will always listen.

[Chucky Mama]

You poor thing, you have truly had the most awful start to the year. How lovely that you and your brother took such loving care of your mother. What a comfort you would have been to her. Your dad would have been so proud of you. Your DH is there for you and will help you though this awfully sad time. Lean on him and love him, you will get through this together. Love and hugs to you - and to your brother too.

[poachedegg]

What a terrible start to 2010 - sending you lots of hugs and am really really sorry about your Mum and Dad.

 

xx

[Sam Palmer]

So sorry to hear about your mum and dad Amanda.

Sending you big (((hugs)))

[pipistrelle]

oh Amanda ((((hugs))) I'm so sorry to hear your tragic news. Will be thinking of you and your brothers.

 

A x

[Blackrocksrock]

I am so sorry - hugs from me and keep strong as you seem to have been - but look after yourself too.

[Cooks]

I am so sorry to hear what your going through ((hugs))

[bigmommasally]

I'm so sorry for you, it truely has been a horrible year for you. Big hugs to you, will be thinking of you, take care x

[Valkyrie]

So sorry to hear about your folks. Take things one step at a time and if you want to cry, rant or whatever - you do it - we'll be here for you. Sending lots of virtual hugs too.

xx

[Space Chick]

I am so sorry.

 

I lost my parents close together (Mum then Dad for me) and I think that the second does lose the will to live. As you said take comfort in the fact that they are together again now, however, this does not make it any easier for those left behind

 

Sending hugs and virtual support, and take every day at a time xx

[keyhole kate]

Sending big Hugs to you at this difficult time I

am very sorry to hear what a rotton time you have been having

look after yourself and stay strong x

[Seagazer]

Amanda, we've already 'spoken', you know how sorry I am for you and your family and your brother. Remember I'm just up the road, tea, coffee and a shoulder to cry on if you want to.

 

Sending all my love, remember to take care of yourself.

Love

Annx